can someone answer my question about the dating policy in ups !

Discussion in 'UPS Discussions' started by Rogergill, Feb 9, 2016.

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Dating policy

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  1. Rogergill

    Rogergill New Member

    Can someone tell me what's the difference between management and management dating and working with eachother and hourly and manegement dating and management marriage with marriage working with eachother and all working in the same building and shift ? I don't get it some get in trouble and moved and they let others get away with it
     
  2. By The Book

    By The Book Well-Known Member

    Just say no to dating at work!
     
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  3. BrownBrokeDown

    BrownBrokeDown Active Member

    Dont date someone you work with...just don't. for every 1 time it works out there is 1,573,369 times it implodes like an atomic bomb.
     
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  4. retiredTxfeeder

    retiredTxfeeder cap'n crunch

    It has been discussed before. Use the search function, and you should find it.
     
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  5. Rogergill

    Rogergill New Member

    It's not me I know I will never my niece is an hourly worker she's been working there 6 years and her fiancé and her just got engaged he's a full time supervisor . They moved him . But h.r ignores the facts that there are other relationships just like hers. Her DM made a move on her and she told him to keep it professional and since then they've been giving them hell and no one else I work there and everyone else's relationship is in the open . I've been there 14 years and never seen anything like this
     
  6. McGee

    McGee Well-Known Member

    Wow, please change your username if its your real one.
     
  7. scratch

    scratch Least Best Moderator Staff Member

    If you don't care for your job, go for it! I have seen several management members fired over the years for this, one supervisor had 35 years in that messed with an OMS. A dispatch supervisor got fired for dating a SPA girl. See a trend here? Bad things happen under certain conditions.
     
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  8. Indecisi0n

    Indecisi0n Well-Known Member

    Post a selfie then I'll tell you if it's wrong or not.
     
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  9. Rogergill

    Rogergill New Member

    It's not I'm not that stupid
     
  10. Rogergill

    Rogergill New Member

    She's a little down about the situation. I am not in management her fiancé is. Either is she but I told her to do what is best. I just never been or seen anyone in this situation that's why I posted the question and needed answers
     
  11. trickpony1

    trickpony1 Well-Known Member

    You don't seem to understand the power structure within the company.

    The DM is highly placed, entitled and will not be questioned. He seemed to pick your niece as his next object of affection. She let him know she wasn't interested. The DM knows he holds the future of your niece and her fiancé in his hands.

    The DM then removed any competition (her fiancé). The passive aggression towards your niece will continue unless/until she succumbs to his overtures.

    I truly hope everything, and I mean "everything", is being documented and written down in detail for future use against the DM and the company $$$$$.

    There's no need for this. The DM can get it elsewhere.
     
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  12. Rogergill

    Rogergill New Member

    Yes it is, I told her record conversations with her phone save any photos sent to her phone tonight is her first night back to work and she is nervous. I said the exact same thing there is no need for this and her rejection was in a professional manner. She's very beautiful. Thank you for this post
     
  13. trickpony1

    trickpony1 Well-Known Member

    Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

    Don't let anyone know what you're doing.

    I'd like to be there to see the DM walked out the gate and a large sum of money in your niece's pocket.
     
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  14. Dr.Brown

    Dr.Brown Swollen Member

    MYOB
     
  15. FrigidFTSup

    FrigidFTSup Resident Suit

    Report it early and don't hide it. Set yourself up so that you are never in a position of power over them.
     
  16. feeders4ever

    feeders4ever New Member

    One big happy family

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  17. Jones

    Jones fILE A GRIEVE! Staff Member

    Remember the golden rule:
    You can screw up, but you can't screw down.
     
  18. Monkey Butt

    Monkey Butt You can call me Chappy Staff Member

    Standard procedure ... it would be unusual if this did not happen.
     
  19. Wally

    Wally Hailing from Parts Unknown.

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  20. burrheadd

    burrheadd Superstar

    Beautiful as in hub beautiful or beautiful as in the rest of the free world beautiful?
    I think we're gonna need a picture