That's correct. You have to use any remaining sick days before you go on short-term disability. In fact, you have to be out 7 calendar days before STD. That's irrelevant as far as your review goes. Just because you used sick days, you don't necessarily take a hit on your review. Were you given FMLA paperwork? If so, did you complete it and send it back? If your manager didn't give you the paperwork, you need to talk to your HR and HCMP people. If they didn't give you paperwork, your absence will pretty much automatically be counted as FMLA (which, as long as you qualify, it probably would anyway). This means that the sick days and leave cannot be counted against you on your review.I was required to take my remaining sick days(4) before I went on short-term disability.
I've only seen this once or twice. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen more often but I think it is the exception rather than the rule. This being someone signing an offer letter and then withdrawing. So maybe your manager has never dealt with it before and genuinely didn't know the policy. Either way, you had already signed the offer letter and made the decision not to go.As to discussing what my mgr said to me with HR, I did. To be exact I went to my mgr and asked if it's possible to withdraw from the position I had accepted due to not being able to find anything affordable in that area that wasn't immediately grabbed by someone local. That landlords weren't willing to deal with someone from out of state when they had 3 or 4 prospective tenants there(very popular beach/university town). Happened over and over. Mgr said he would ask HR, sent me msg saying HR said I could withdraw up to the reporting date. When I saw mgr that night asked him what did I need to do besides withdraw on the computer. Told me to contact hiring mgr AND SAID THERE MAY BE A TIME PENALTY INVOLVED(exact words). I asked him how much is that? HE REPLIED HE DIDN'T KNOW, WOULD HAVE TO ASK HR.
Why would he need to evade giving you an answer? You already signed the letter and made the decision not to go.It never occured to me that he might be trying to evade giving answer.
Yes it would leave you having to find a place to live which you already said you couldn't afford to do. JCATS might not tell you but policy does. And, no, I don't expect everyone to know all the policies. However, if you had any doubt that you might not want the position, asking before you sign would be a common sense thing to do. You are after all signing an offer letter that has stipulations and commitments. Why would you treat it as something the manager takes home and puts on the fridge next to his kid's pictures?He knew I was trying to get near my mom and sister. At any rate I should have gotten the answer before I withdrew. But that would still leave me having to find a place to live. And as FedEx doesn't tell you in JCATS that you'll be penalized a whole year, they really put you between a rock and a hard place.
And they shouldn't create anything special for you. That's how multi-million $$ lawsuits get started.So 2 days after I withdrew there's an opening for a domiciled courier slightly farther than the other from my mom but with a much better cost of living. So I put in for it, then tell my mgr about it. He's saying no I can't. I point out that hiring mgr of previous posting never contacted him, which policy clearly states he must. That I was just in system as "verified", he never entered that position was filled. My mgr calls HR. She tells me that only thing that matters is I put my signature on the offer letter accepting it, doesn't matter that hiring mgr didn't follow policy. She shows up that Wedsnday and we have conference. She tells me she'll ask her boss about the policy and get back with me if exception can be made. I don't hear anything until I called her Friday morning and she says her boss "is on a conference call.". Said she call that afternoon but I call back at 1730 after hearing nothing. She seems irritated, says it's under review, and agrees that I'm not going to get an answer before job closes out that night. She mentions possibility of getting future hardship transfer based on my needs. I say I'm going GFT rt. Decide to call district director and left 2 long msgs. He calls me at home Sunday morning and we have good discussion. But I point out a hardship transfer will just land me in a rt that no one wants and that I'm just not able anymore, that they aren't going to create anything special for me.
Because that would be giving you special treatment that isn't given to other employees. At least with a hardship there is substantial documentation indicating why a person's need is overwhelmingly greater than that of the average person. Things such as you being the only person that can take care of a dying relative. To "just let you go" wouldn't be fair to other people who have time commitments. Why should you be allowed to go and not them?That's why I wanted that rural domicile so bad. He agrees that's likely the case. Said he would look into it and sounded like he meant it but I told him if it's too late for that posting there's no point going further with it. If he's done anything I haven't heard. Oh, HR rep told me I should have been aware of the policy of being disqualified from applying for one year after withdrawing from an offer letter I accepted. I pointed out my mgr said he didn't know what the penalty was. Got an odd look. Also told her and director about being lied to before coming go this station, as well as having to go to HR(in previous district) to get current rt as he tried to prevent me from getting it. He called me at home to read the policy to me by the way after I applied for the domicile. I said to him then that with my health issues and trying to get near family why not just let me go?
I can't tell you for sure that he is or is not holding a grudge but everything you've stated boils down to a few things:He talked about how I got everything I wanted when I GFTed him shortly after transferring in. I told him that wasn't true and now I'm seeing all of this as a little getting even for going over his head twice, and being able to use policy to do it. So there you go.
1. You've misunderstood how the attendance policy works
2. You signed an offer letter without doing due diligence
3. You realized your mistake and are looking for someone to bail you out
4. You want policy followed except when it comes to you
Seems to be a common thread in your career. Take some responsibility for your actions and accept the consequences of those actions.