Getting married as a preloader/ cover driver

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Hostage situation?

I think she is just using me for sex.

 

[upschuck]

I think she is just using me for sex.

If by sex, you mean food, I can see that.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

If by sex, you mean food, I can see that.

I feel so used,sometimes. Can't we cuddle anymore?

 

[bleedinbrown58]

I think she is just using me for sex.

Well yeah...you do the shopping...you buy the batteries...lol

 

[cosmo1]

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Rookie!

40 years in May.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Rookie!

40 years in May.

Still on my honeymoon.

 

[upschuck]

I feel so used,sometimes. Can't we cuddle anymore?

Like you ever said that

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Like you ever said that

I said it on a card. Never said I meant it.

 

[Brownslave688]

Keeping finances separate, not a good idea, IMO. Then you are paying, or she is paying, instead of we are paying, fights will happen. Only way that is a good idea is if you are not planning on it lasting a lifetime, then why get married. Just my two cents.

Keeping finances seperate is th best thing to ever happen to my marriage.

Each have your own bills and who cares what you do with the rest.

 

[upschuck]

Sorry about turning this thread to a different direction Chris. I wish you and your future wife all the best.

 

[Brownslave688]

Also couldn't imagine not living together first. I know others have different beliefs. However you'll learn more in the first couple months living together than you have in 2 years dating.

 

[upschuck]

Keeping finances seperate is th best thing to ever happen to my marriage.

Each have your own bills and who cares what you do with the rest.

Don't believe that promotes the togetherness and oneness a marriage should have. IMO

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Don't believe that promotes the togetherness and oneness a marriage should have. IMO

One person needs to be in charge of the bills. At the same time, each one needs their only money.

Chris,don't listen to us. Congratulations on your soon to be wedding.

Save me a good table and don't be cheap on the beer .!

 

[Cementups]

I think she is just using me for sex.

Well, you are quite flexible

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Well, you are quite flexible

Not as much as I used to be.

 

[Cementups]

Keeping finances separate, not a good idea, IMO. Then you are paying, or she is paying, instead of we are paying, fights will happen. Only way that is a good idea is if you are not planning on it lasting a lifetime, then why get married. Just my two cents.

My wife and I (together 21 years, married 12) have our money separate. But then we have a joint account that we each put money into every payday to pay for the house and other bills. I have my money, she has her money and she has our money. She seems like the winner here.

 

[Cementups]

Not as much as I used to be.

Then you better chance your avatar.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Then you better chance your avatar.

Broken down box monkey?

 

[Cementups]

Broken down box monkey?

I like to monkey around and she likes my banana. It's a fair trade.......as long as I don't sling poop at her. I won't make that mistake twice. :/

 

[Brownslave688]

Don't believe that promotes the togetherness and oneness a marriage should have. IMO

Yeah the wife and I love each other and we get along pretty great but neither of us view marriage as this magical thing that's greater than us as individuals.