the building mannager started to ask me questions,her explanation "she can't have 150 employees calling and just say option 3" so i told her that my son was sick,she was asking me if there is somebody else who can take care of him(hellooo i'm the mother)so i went to work cause last year they wrote me for a similar reason and i talked to them and they told me that i had to ask them in advance before using those days...either way i went home and i lost that day.Today they told me that i didn't take option 3,they said i took option 1 but i'm sure i signed up for option 3,my supervisor thinks is a optional week cause it had OPW (optional week)on the paystub i told him to find the paper that had my signature for option 3,tomorrow i'll find out about it thank you all for you're help