HELP ME MAKE THIS RELATIONSHIP WORK!!!

Discussion in 'Introductions and Welcomes' started by Lo Turbin, May 13, 2015.

  1. Sweetheart4

    Sweetheart4 New Member

    i AM IN A WONDERFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH A GREAT MAN WHO WORKS FOR ups. IN THE PAST THREE YEARS HE HAS HAD VARIOUS SCHEDULES AND WE MANAGED TO WORK IT OUT.

    SINCE LAST YEAR HE HAS BEEN IN FEEDERS AND IS NOW ON A 1AM TIL 1 PM SHIFT M-F.

    i AM HAVING A VERY DIFFICULT TIME HE IS NOT ....HE LOVES THIS SCHEDULE BUT ALL WE HAVE IS SATURDAY AFTERNOON AFTER HE WAKES AT 5 PM TIL SUNDAY NIGHT. i WORK A REGULAR JOB M-F 10-4. HE SLEEPS ALL DAY AND WAKES AT 11:15PM. SHOWERS GRABS HIS LUNCH WHICH I MAKE FOR HIM AND LEAVES. BY 12:15 AM

    I FEEL RESENTFUL THAT I MANAGE ALL THE HOME DUTIES AND COOKING AN CLEANING BECAUSE OF HIS TIME LIMITATIONS. THE TIME WE SHARE TOGETHER IS FUN AND WE DO ALOT OF THINGS IN THAT LIMITED TIME BUT, I FEEL DETACHED . I LOVE HIM TREMENDOUSLY AND WANT TO FIND SOME SOLUTION.

    I DO HAVE FRIENDS AND FAMILY AND LOVE MY JOB I AM NOT NEEDY NOR AM I CO-DEPENDENT IT JUST SEEMS LIKE SOMETHING CAN BE DONE TO MAKE THIS WORK BETTER...ANY IDEAS???

    THIS MAY HIS SCHEDULE FOR YEARS TO COME AND i AM WONDERING IF i WILL BE ABLE TO ENDURE IT. i DO NOT WANT THIS RELATIONSHIP TO END WHEN THE LOVE IS SO STRONG AND WE ARE SO COMPATIBLE...i WILL RETIRE IN 5 YEARS AND HE WILL RETIRE IN 15 YRS!!

    ANY IDEAS PLEASE
     
  2. silenze

    silenze Lunch is the best part of the day

    His hours will probably change next bid. Just let him know you would like to see him more.
     
  3. Sweetheart4

    Sweetheart4 New Member

    YES, BUT THATS NEXT YEAR i THINK?
     
  4. Turdferguson

    Turdferguson Guest

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  5. upschuck

    upschuck Avatar bet gone wrong

    Hit the capslock button.
     
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  6. Find a boyfriend on the side?
     
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  7. upschuck

    upschuck Avatar bet gone wrong

    Come home for nooners.
     
  8. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 ahhh....the mouth breathers

    You can't wait a year if you love the guy??? He's at work....not in prison. FFS...get over it, and make the most of the time you do have together.
     
  9. Sounds like you need to get some action.???
     
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  10. upschuck

    upschuck Avatar bet gone wrong

    Seriously though, if he doesn't change his schedule next chance, he is not the man for you.

    If you can't make this work for a year, he is also not the man for you.

    I say that because he does not consider your desires over his. Would never last anyways
     
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  11. Sweetheart4

    Sweetheart4 New Member


    iTS NOT ABOUT WAITING A YEAR ITS ABOUT ALL THE SCHEDULE CHANGES IN THE PAST 3 YEARS AND NOW THIS ONE! i AM NOT UNREASONABLE THAT WHY i POSTED TO GET SOME INPUT AND IDEAS TO REACH OUT!
     
  12. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 ahhh....the mouth breathers

    Put your tootsie roll back in your pants.....lol
     
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  13. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 ahhh....the mouth breathers

    No, you posted because you're attention seeking. You should be talking about this with your husband or friends....not random strangers on the internet....that's not necessarily sound advice.
     
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  14. Dont worry about my Roll...toots.
     
  15. upschuck

    upschuck Avatar bet gone wrong

    Speak for yourself.​
     
  16. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 ahhh....the mouth breathers

    Worry about it....I can't even see it :detective: Lmao
     
  17. Brownslave688

    Brownslave688 You want a toe? I can get you a toe.

    Why are you yelling?
     
  18. Your tonsils said hi.
     
  19. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 ahhh....the mouth breathers

    I just did...
    Magic internet 8ball....answer my questions. I make all important decisions in my life based on advice from people I don't know on the.internet....lmao. Don't you?
     
  20. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 ahhh....the mouth breathers

    Because she's explaining why she's right!! lol