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<blockquote data-quote="zubenelgenubi" data-source="post: 3421657" data-attributes="member: 63706"><p>Oh, she's not going to catch you? Well that changes everything. Smh. You may have a future with her, if she never finds out who you really are. How long can you keep up the charade? I'm not saying this to be judgmental, but there are certain truths you really need to wake up to. If you want a quality relationship with a respectable woman, you must be respectable, and you must work at the relationship. Legalities be damned. If they are the only thing keeping your behavior in check, you should just save everyone a lot of pain and never get married.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I understand where you are coming from on this. Our society in general is flipping a giant bird to every day working men. Guys who never grew up and act like [USER=62223]@Mesomorph[/USER] have a lot to do with why things are the way they are. Your reaction of self preservation is understandable. Just like we are experiencing the consequences of mistreating women as a society, we will start experiencing the consequences of men withdrawing from their natural function within society. The pendulum starts swinging the other way eventually. If we want to prevent the utter collapse of western society it will be up to us men to shoulder the burden, suck up the crappy aspects of life, and do what needs to be done, with or without the recognition we may deserve.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="zubenelgenubi, post: 3421657, member: 63706"] Oh, she's not going to catch you? Well that changes everything. Smh. You may have a future with her, if she never finds out who you really are. How long can you keep up the charade? I'm not saying this to be judgmental, but there are certain truths you really need to wake up to. If you want a quality relationship with a respectable woman, you must be respectable, and you must work at the relationship. Legalities be damned. If they are the only thing keeping your behavior in check, you should just save everyone a lot of pain and never get married. I understand where you are coming from on this. Our society in general is flipping a giant bird to every day working men. Guys who never grew up and act like [USER=62223]@Mesomorph[/USER] have a lot to do with why things are the way they are. Your reaction of self preservation is understandable. Just like we are experiencing the consequences of mistreating women as a society, we will start experiencing the consequences of men withdrawing from their natural function within society. The pendulum starts swinging the other way eventually. If we want to prevent the utter collapse of western society it will be up to us men to shoulder the burden, suck up the crappy aspects of life, and do what needs to be done, with or without the recognition we may deserve. [/QUOTE]
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