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<blockquote data-quote="anonymous6" data-source="post: 1026151"><p>11 years ago at age 48 I went thru almost the same thing . almost total financial/ mental failure due to anothers person misdeeds. anyway it didn't matter how it happened . what does matter is how I responded.</p><p></p><p>I was fortunate enough to ask the advice of a very wise person.</p><p></p><p>First. exercise , eat right and sleep. You need to be in good shape to fight back, ( you're on the right track here )</p><p></p><p>second. get a notebook and start making lists of everything you need to do to make a comeback. they don't need to be in order right away, that comes later. I went on long walks for about 2 months and the fog slowly cleared and i could see what direction to go. </p><p></p><p>write the to-do list and then prioritize it. then just do the first thing first without looking at everything else. this priority list may take awhile but it's worth it. do the the #1 then cross it off and go to next. it's easier to take a big big job and break it down into little parts.</p><p></p><p>Read inspirational material. " Discovering The Laws Of Life" "The Magic Of Thinking Big" " The Power Of Positive Thinking" and others. </p><p></p><p>Watch Inspiratuional Movies to get you thinking positive. Surround yourself with positive people, etc. </p><p></p><p>For financial advice go to Daveramsey.com. In my opinion he is the best in the business.</p><p></p><p>Keep working. It is good medicine. It doesn't have to be agreat job at first. 6-12 months will go by fast and it will help you get on the right track to make your comeback. When not at a job, workout and or do yardwork etc. anything to keep busy. good ideas will come to you when you least expect it. even in dreams.</p><p></p><p>Realize there may be setbacks but if you stay focused on your written plan they will not last. You WILL make progress.</p><p></p><p>This will take time. It took us 2-3 years to just to breathe easier. a couple more years to be doing well again and now we are in pretty good shape. Looking back it is almost unbelievable how well we did. lots of hard work.</p><p></p><p>hope this helps. good luck brother.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="anonymous6, post: 1026151"] 11 years ago at age 48 I went thru almost the same thing . almost total financial/ mental failure due to anothers person misdeeds. anyway it didn't matter how it happened . what does matter is how I responded. I was fortunate enough to ask the advice of a very wise person. First. exercise , eat right and sleep. You need to be in good shape to fight back, ( you're on the right track here ) second. get a notebook and start making lists of everything you need to do to make a comeback. they don't need to be in order right away, that comes later. I went on long walks for about 2 months and the fog slowly cleared and i could see what direction to go. write the to-do list and then prioritize it. then just do the first thing first without looking at everything else. this priority list may take awhile but it's worth it. do the the #1 then cross it off and go to next. it's easier to take a big big job and break it down into little parts. Read inspirational material. " Discovering The Laws Of Life" "The Magic Of Thinking Big" " The Power Of Positive Thinking" and others. Watch Inspiratuional Movies to get you thinking positive. Surround yourself with positive people, etc. For financial advice go to Daveramsey.com. In my opinion he is the best in the business. Keep working. It is good medicine. It doesn't have to be agreat job at first. 6-12 months will go by fast and it will help you get on the right track to make your comeback. When not at a job, workout and or do yardwork etc. anything to keep busy. good ideas will come to you when you least expect it. even in dreams. Realize there may be setbacks but if you stay focused on your written plan they will not last. You WILL make progress. This will take time. It took us 2-3 years to just to breathe easier. a couple more years to be doing well again and now we are in pretty good shape. Looking back it is almost unbelievable how well we did. lots of hard work. hope this helps. good luck brother. [/QUOTE]
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