UPS needs some backbone with idiot customers...

[surviv'n_it]

LOL. Thanks everyone for the great responses. I have been with UPS for 11 years and have had some minor instances with people but nothing even close to this. I do feel better as this really bugged the heck out of me yesterday.

I really never thought that you couldnt just reason with people over any issue and work it out so both sides are happy. I suppose this shows that some people just cannot be reasoned with.

The thing that makes me the most angry though is the fact that UPS will end up apologizing and babying these idiots which will make it just that much harder the next time they want to throw a fit about something. That is why I just wish sometimes UPS would have the backbone to just stand up and say,
"I am sorry you feel this is wrong but our driver is doing everything the safest he can and there really isnt anything more we can do."

But no, they will say something along the lines, " I am sorry about our driver. He was out of line and shouldnt have did that and we will talk with him and make sure it doesnt happen again."

That is what makes me the most angry.

[Dutch Dawg]

While this problem may never go away, if you file any formal complaint with the Sheriff, it's not likely to bring resolution and you'll just be playing the homeowner's game causing escalation. Procure a cheap video camera to record your travel in front of their home. Another complaint is soon bound to occur from what you've stated and you'll have conclusive evidence. The world is full of people like you describe, it's only when paths cross that it comes to light.

[trickpony1]

Ask the police department for a police escort everytime you go down this road.
Tell the police you feel threatened by these people that clearly exhibit unusual, aggressive behavior by standing in the street, impeding your progress
I bet after a few days of having the police escort things will change.

Another thought.....
ask the CM for a printout of your "tach" card showing the vehicles speed and RPM at the exact time you're going down this street. It's easy to do and the CM can probably bring it up on the screen with you standing there watching.

,,,,,happens in feeders all the time.

[brownrodster]

Originally Posted by surviv'n_it

The thing that makes me the most angry though is the fact that UPS will end up apologizing and babying these idiots which will make it just that much harder the next time they want to throw a fit about something. That is why I just wish sometimes UPS would have the backbone to just stand up and say,
"I am sorry you feel this is wrong but our driver is doing everything the safest he can and there really isnt anything more we can do."

In my center the OMS would tell them what's what and back up the driver. Then most likely the on cars will have a little laugh about it with the driver one day before he went on road. I think you are just paranoid or have crazy sups!

[surviv'n_it]

Originally Posted by brownrodster

In my center the OMS would tell them what's what and back up the driver. Then most likely the on cars will have a little laugh about it with the driver one day before he went on road. I think you are just paranoid or have crazy sups!

They already did apologize to them. There were no supervisors in the office as they all leave by 4pm on Fridays so an office girl called them back and apologized as "the driver was in the wrong". She told me that when I got back to the building. She told me that I should always just say "yes sir and no sir" to everyone who complains. From what I have seen, sups always support the customer over the driver regardless of what happened.

[disneyworld]

As a previous post said-it's always the stay at home mom, and they always embelish the story to make it look alot worse than it is. We have all been in this situation and nothing we say can appease them, they think they are always right. Kill them with kindness.

[disneyworld]

Originally Posted by surviv'n_it

LOL. Thanks everyone for the great responses. I have been with UPS for 11 years and have had some minor instances with people but nothing even close to this. I do feel better as this really bugged the heck out of me yesterday.

I really never thought that you couldnt just reason with people over any issue and work it out so both sides are happy. I suppose this shows that some people just cannot be reasoned with.

The thing that makes me the most angry though is the fact that UPS will end up apologizing and babying these idiots which will make it just that much harder the next time they want to throw a fit about something. That is why I just wish sometimes UPS would have the backbone to just stand up and say,
"I am sorry you feel this is wrong but our driver is doing everything the safest he can and there really isnt anything more we can do."

But no, they will say something along the lines, " I am sorry about our driver. He was out of line and shouldnt have did that and we will talk with him and make sure it doesnt happen again."

That is what makes me the most angry.

The next step UPS says will be to walk off that street.

[covemaster]

have a dong delivered to her house, and leave her a note on door that neighbor signed for it!! open pkg make it look mangled and re/tape the crap out of it!!!! when she goes to p/up the pkg from neighbor and gets it home to open it,you will feel satisfaction.

[rod]

How about having your CM drive a similar package car by them before you so he knows what you are up against.

[surviv'n_it]

Originally Posted by disneyworld

The next step UPS says will be to walk off that street.

LOL, I was thinking that yesterday. It would be a good 10th of a mile walk each way, hoping it would take only one trip.

[tieguy]

Originally Posted by surviv'n_it

They already did apologize to them. There were no supervisors in the office as they all leave by 4pm on Fridays so an office girl called them back and apologized as "the driver was in the wrong". She told me that when I got back to the building. She told me that I should always just say "yes sir and no sir" to everyone who complains. From what I have seen, sups always support the customer over the driver regardless of what happened.

they're right on that part. You're going to hear complaints from the customers either about you personally as in this case or about the ups service in general. We really don't want you arguing with the customers. I say that with the understanding that you're dealing with some genuine section 8 psycho's in this case.

[soberups]

Just quit driving down the road. Inform the consignee that you arent allowed on the road anymore. If he shares the road or has an easement from the people who are giving you grief, he can go discuss it with them. It is a private property issue, if they dont want you on the property, they are making a choice to not recieve their packages. Choices have consequences.

[UPS Lifer]

Originally Posted by dilligaf

Griff, pls reread the original post.

As I understand it, the problem is with a neighbor of the regular cnee. It is not fair to punish IE: (RTS) the regular reciever because the neighbor is a jerk. There are other ways to deal with this.

Dilligaf,
You gave great advice!! This is exactly what any driver should do. Just ignore that customer in the future and do not have any conversation with them. Be friendly, wave, smile and keep going.

If the management team gives you any trouble ask them to meet you at the stop or come ride with you. This will take care of any mis-information that is being spread.

Anyone that gives advice to take some sort of retribution is flat out wrong. This is what will get you into trouble.

No reasonable person expects a driver to stand by and take abuse from a customer. To cut the conversation off say "I am sorry that you feel that way, excuse me, I must go now".... do this as soon as the abuse starts and don't allow yourself to be put through it again if the customer approaches you at some future point. You can usually tell by their body language as they approach. If this customer ever flags you down again wave and keep on going.

[surviv'n_it]

Originally Posted by soberups

Just quit driving down the road. Inform the consignee that you arent allowed on the road anymore. If he shares the road or has an easement from the people who are giving you grief, he can go discuss it with them. It is a private property issue, if they dont want you on the property, they are making a choice to not recieve their packages. Choices have consequences.

That will be something that my management is going to have to decide. According to the Sheriff department, the people I am having a problem with have no case. When 4 homes are built on a private drive, one property owner cannot restrict access to any of the others. The Sheriff Dept. also said what I already knew, when you order a package, it automatically gives implied consent for the person/company delivering the package to enter the property. This may vary from state to state but in my state this is the way the law is.

[UPS Lifer]

Originally Posted by surviv'n_it

That will be something that my management is going to have to decide. According to the Sheriff department, the people I am having a problem with have no case. When 4 homes are built on a private drive, one property owner cannot restrict access to any of the others. The Sheriff Dept. also said what I already knew, when you order a package, it automatically gives implied consent for the person/company delivering the package to enter the property. This may vary from state to state but in my state this is the way the law is.

Generally, a private road means that the homeowners or more appropriately the landowners have to pay to build and maintain the road. There is one land owner that must allow access to the landlocked additional property owners. As long as one of any of the other landowners gives you permission to drive down the road there is no legal recourse for the other land owners.

They cannot block your access without everyones permission!

[brownmonster]

What if the neighbors house is on fire and the kid gets pasted by a fire truck. Is she gonna yell at the fireman for going too fast. Just like with a dog, if it's out in the street it's fair game.

[Griff]

Originally Posted by dilligaf

Griff, pls reread the original post.

As I understand it, the problem is with a neighbor of the regular cnee. It is not fair to punish IE: (RTS) the regular reciever because the neighbor is a jerk. There are other ways to deal with this.

Maybe you should quote my entire post and perhaps take some of your own advice. I clearly said I would only QC the packages of the people being idiots, the rest of the people would still get their packages.

[UPS Lifer]

Originally Posted by Griff

Maybe you should quote my entire post and perhaps take some of your own advice. I clearly said I would only QC the packages of the people being idiots, the rest of the people would still get their packages.

You will lash out at anybody for any reason. Quit acting like a bully you are! No wonder you have a problem with at least one customer a week for what ever reason. You really need to work on that chip on your shoulder!

[PassYouBy]

Originally Posted by Ghost in the Darkness

Maybe you could suggest they get invisible fencing for their free roaming toddler... .

Not my kid BTW!