411 on UPS relationships

Discussion in 'UPS Discussions' started by BettyBrowny, Jan 16, 2014.

  1. BettyBrowny

    BettyBrowny New Member

    I've worked for UPS for 10+ years and currently I am a slave to the package car. I previously have transferred to a new building. Prior to the transfer I met another employee and we have been dating for close to two years. He has since transferred to the same building and our relationship has become very serious. I am afraid that I don't understand the rules and can't ask anyone in fear of it leaking out and everyone knowing. What if we decide to marry? What is the 411 on relationships, marriage, and dating inside UPS? I will say we rarely speak at work and don't really try to make it obvious we are dating, except we have a total understanding of how hard we both work and don't spend hours alone waiting for the other to come home. Instead we get home nice and late and enjoy early bed times. Please help.
  2. UpstateNYUPSer

    UpstateNYUPSer Very proud grandfather.

    The only restriction is if only one of you works here and you are married the other could not work here. It is not uncommon for two UPSers to date and get married.
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  3. cachsux

    cachsux Wah

    Here, as long as one or both are not in management and your relationship does not cause any interference at work, have at it.
    I used to work with a married feeder couple. They lived off one salary and banked the other. Needless to say they retired early.
  4. ChickenLegs

    ChickenLegs Safety Expert

    I agree with upstate
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  5. Anonymous 10

    Anonymous 10 Guest

    If you are both hourly no big deal. If you are both management one will ha to be moved. If one is hourly and the other is management the management will get moved. I've seen all situations and have also seen them working together with no problems.
  6. Anonymous 10

    Anonymous 10 Guest

    That's because you are upstate.
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  7. Monkey Butt

    Monkey Butt Dark Prince of Double Standards Staff Member

    Generally what Upstate said is correct ... especially if one is in management.

    It may vary based on management assessment of the situation.

    If both are Teamster represented employees, I don't think the company gets involved unless the couple gets married and the relationship goes sour. In that situation, UPS and the Teamsters may allow one of the employees to transfer to another building.
  8. BrownChoice

    BrownChoice Active Member

    Dont get your honey where you get your money
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  9. saintrick

    saintrick Member

    The relationship policy can be found on upsers. Search keyword relationship.
  10. laffter

    laffter Active Member

    Doesn't really work for beekeeping.

    HEFFERNAN Huge Member

    We have 2 drivers that dated and married. Never heard one issue about it. He ended up bidding into feeders and she is still in package.
    I was always told there may be an issue for someone in management supervising a significant other or 2 management personnel in a relationship.
  12. Ouch

    Ouch Well-Known Member

    As long as one of you isn't in management or supervision your fine. Tell them to kiss your :censored2:.
  13. mercury7

    mercury7 Member

    We've had management that are married. They both still work for UPS
  14. Indecisi0n

    Indecisi0n Well-Known Member

    Can I still sleep with other hourlys?
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  15. Monkey Butt

    Monkey Butt Dark Prince of Double Standards Staff Member

    You mean in theory?
  16. Indecisi0n

    Indecisi0n Well-Known Member

    Ummm yea.
  17. 728ups

    728ups offending people on the internet since 1995

    we have two drivers that are married in our center,and in a neighboring center there is a married couple who are drivers as well

    BSWALKS I Wanna Be Sedated

    Hourlies, plural?? You do get around, don't you!
  19. brownmonster

    brownmonster Man of Great Wisdom

    I would say the majority of our drivers our married.
  20. Indecisi0n

    Indecisi0n Well-Known Member

    They say it's normal hazing.
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