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<blockquote data-quote="Operational needs" data-source="post: 1536167" data-attributes="member: 43500"><p>I agree with you to a point. But, kids are different in the same family and what works for one, might not work for the other. Case in point, spanking and the threat of it worked for my oldest. She turned out great. </p><p></p><p>My youngest on the other hand was very strong willed and very curious, and spanking only made her angry. So after constantly telling her no and spanking her, I realized it wasn't working. I started praising her ad nauseum when she did what I wanted her to and explained to her why the other things were a bad idea. I also redirected her attention to something that I would tell her was a much better idea. But I was always insistent. Spankings after that were saved for defiance. Today, she is an awesome well-behaved teenager.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Operational needs, post: 1536167, member: 43500"] I agree with you to a point. But, kids are different in the same family and what works for one, might not work for the other. Case in point, spanking and the threat of it worked for my oldest. She turned out great. My youngest on the other hand was very strong willed and very curious, and spanking only made her angry. So after constantly telling her no and spanking her, I realized it wasn't working. I started praising her ad nauseum when she did what I wanted her to and explained to her why the other things were a bad idea. I also redirected her attention to something that I would tell her was a much better idea. But I was always insistent. Spankings after that were saved for defiance. Today, she is an awesome well-behaved teenager. [/QUOTE]
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