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<blockquote data-quote="toonertoo" data-source="post: 4045750" data-attributes="member: 1944"><p>I will throw in my 2 cents. For what its worth. There is a formula last I knew. If Mom makes 40k and you make 60k. There is an amount in the formula that says what it costs to raise a child in a 100k family. Say that number is 10000 a year. she would contribute 4000, you would contribute 6000. Whoever can provide medical for the lowest is usually credited for providing it, in your decree. This is an out of pocket cost. If you had to pay 200 per month, you would be credited 2400. But since it is a free benefit, even though part of a total benefit package, they would not consider the cost, because you do not pay it out of pocket. </p><p> i took my x back to court, he was making 3xs what I was..by the time we went to court, I was driving, and he quit his job. I got 12 dollars a month. I sent it back to him. </p><p>He had coverage on my boy for a short time, and during that time my boy was hospitalized several times. Instead of paying the provider, his insurance sent him the check. Because I had to sign consent to pay forms, and I was not on the policy. Guess who got to pay those bills? </p><p>Just be happy you have good coverage, and your child can get the care said child needs, when needed. The only time you should squawk, and I know you will pay alot, is when you see your child going without. </p><p>And dont punish child by not buying him things coz you send his mother every week. Its a short period and in a blink of an eye its gone. Dont burden kids with the mundane, not saying you would, just something I learned having been there. Doing well is the best revenge.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toonertoo, post: 4045750, member: 1944"] I will throw in my 2 cents. For what its worth. There is a formula last I knew. If Mom makes 40k and you make 60k. There is an amount in the formula that says what it costs to raise a child in a 100k family. Say that number is 10000 a year. she would contribute 4000, you would contribute 6000. Whoever can provide medical for the lowest is usually credited for providing it, in your decree. This is an out of pocket cost. If you had to pay 200 per month, you would be credited 2400. But since it is a free benefit, even though part of a total benefit package, they would not consider the cost, because you do not pay it out of pocket. i took my x back to court, he was making 3xs what I was..by the time we went to court, I was driving, and he quit his job. I got 12 dollars a month. I sent it back to him. He had coverage on my boy for a short time, and during that time my boy was hospitalized several times. Instead of paying the provider, his insurance sent him the check. Because I had to sign consent to pay forms, and I was not on the policy. Guess who got to pay those bills? Just be happy you have good coverage, and your child can get the care said child needs, when needed. The only time you should squawk, and I know you will pay alot, is when you see your child going without. And dont punish child by not buying him things coz you send his mother every week. Its a short period and in a blink of an eye its gone. Dont burden kids with the mundane, not saying you would, just something I learned having been there. Doing well is the best revenge. [/QUOTE]
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