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<blockquote data-quote="beentheredonethat" data-source="post: 1784451" data-attributes="member: 4886"><p>You are frustrated with her and it sounds like either she doesn't know, or doesn't care. Are you really communicating?</p><p></p><p> Sounds like you are more jealous of what she gets to do. </p><p> Many people say all drivers do is drive around all day and deliver "letters". What a great job!, I wish I had that job. Yet, we all know a drivers job is difficult. Even if "all she does" is call people, how do we know how stressful it is? Just like she may not understand what a driver does. </p><p></p><p></p><p>So you know she didn't cook and that's OK, but sounds like it is still frustrating. </p><p></p><p> Again, sounds like you are jealous, and possibly more upset with your own job of working 50+ hours. </p><p></p><p>I hate the idea of going through divorce, it sounds like your UPS job working 50+ hours a week iss more important to you then marriage vows. What if you gave up your job and worked a 40 hour week elsewhere? Maybe study to become a nurse like her? </p><p></p><p>My point is, in other posts you are frustrated that on weekends you "have to do yardwork" but later say you don't mind it and don't want to pay someone for something you can do. How about for a couple of months you put in your 8 hour requests. You hire a kid to do the yard work, you hire a maid to clean the clothes. When you come home, put a real effort into greeting her and talking with her. Maybe it won't do anything and two months or so later, you are more convinced for a divorce. Or maybe, in two months your marriage is much better off. Put the effort to save the marriage (if it can be). The worst that happens is you waste a few months trying.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="beentheredonethat, post: 1784451, member: 4886"] You are frustrated with her and it sounds like either she doesn't know, or doesn't care. Are you really communicating? Sounds like you are more jealous of what she gets to do. Many people say all drivers do is drive around all day and deliver "letters". What a great job!, I wish I had that job. Yet, we all know a drivers job is difficult. Even if "all she does" is call people, how do we know how stressful it is? Just like she may not understand what a driver does. So you know she didn't cook and that's OK, but sounds like it is still frustrating. Again, sounds like you are jealous, and possibly more upset with your own job of working 50+ hours. I hate the idea of going through divorce, it sounds like your UPS job working 50+ hours a week iss more important to you then marriage vows. What if you gave up your job and worked a 40 hour week elsewhere? Maybe study to become a nurse like her? My point is, in other posts you are frustrated that on weekends you "have to do yardwork" but later say you don't mind it and don't want to pay someone for something you can do. How about for a couple of months you put in your 8 hour requests. You hire a kid to do the yard work, you hire a maid to clean the clothes. When you come home, put a real effort into greeting her and talking with her. Maybe it won't do anything and two months or so later, you are more convinced for a divorce. Or maybe, in two months your marriage is much better off. Put the effort to save the marriage (if it can be). The worst that happens is you waste a few months trying. [/QUOTE]
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