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<blockquote data-quote="zubenelgenubi" data-source="post: 5244638" data-attributes="member: 63706"><p>As hard as it may be to hear, your Mom and Grandma aren't your responsibility. If you can't get into a shelter as a family, it's probably time to split up, which would be better than all of you being on the street.</p><p></p><p>There is what you feel obligated to do, then there's what you are actually capable of doing. You spinning your wheels like this isn't helping mom and grandma, and it sure isn't helping you. Cousin should be willing to help out with grandma a while longer (assuming blood relation), mom needs to figure out a way to contribute and not lean entirely on you, or she can live at the shelter.</p><p></p><p>Once you get yourself into a position where you can actually take care of mom and grandma, then you can let them mooch off you again. But if you are depending on becoming a driver, you don't want to risk messing that up until after you qualify. It's hard enough when you are single or have a supportive family, but having this sort of chaos while trying to qualify isn't a great idea.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="zubenelgenubi, post: 5244638, member: 63706"] As hard as it may be to hear, your Mom and Grandma aren't your responsibility. If you can't get into a shelter as a family, it's probably time to split up, which would be better than all of you being on the street. There is what you feel obligated to do, then there's what you are actually capable of doing. You spinning your wheels like this isn't helping mom and grandma, and it sure isn't helping you. Cousin should be willing to help out with grandma a while longer (assuming blood relation), mom needs to figure out a way to contribute and not lean entirely on you, or she can live at the shelter. Once you get yourself into a position where you can actually take care of mom and grandma, then you can let them mooch off you again. But if you are depending on becoming a driver, you don't want to risk messing that up until after you qualify. It's hard enough when you are single or have a supportive family, but having this sort of chaos while trying to qualify isn't a great idea. [/QUOTE]
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