Went thru divorce bout 15 yrs ago, maybe more. Tryin to forget that one! Was in cruzin high gear for lots o yrs! Doin stuff that, off the clock, was bordering on illegal and was over-the-edge immoral. Ain't proud of it but too many people here know about it and some read this so can't sugar coat it.
At the urging of a very good younger female friend and against what little common sense I had left, I joined a local dating thing. Geez! Did I get busy then! ANYWAY, on feeder run would stop at same truck stop for legal break and got to be friends with fuel desk gal and manager sister. They'd always ask about my escapades that weekend. I'd be happy to oblige by going into great detail! What a bumblehead! After a few months of THAT, I called it off. No more going out, no more phone calls, no more nothing! I was wore out!
The fuel desk gal says after all this, "I know who you can go out with!!" (Oh, no! Not another one!!!) She also worked p/t at a nursing home. I said, "Here's my #. Have her call".
She did. To shorten up the story, she lived 70 mi away. We long-distanced for 5 yrs, got married in 02. This yr'll be 5 with the best thing that's ever happened to me. Probably saved my life.