I would enjoy a few months before even telling her...Most driver's I worked with were more concerned how their wife's would deal with them being around more!
I plan a little side hustle, a little volunteering, and a little me time. Zero cold, rain, sleet or snow or anyone telling me what to do. Its still a scary transition.HUH?
You think you cant have structure when you retire? Easy Peasy!
Question is why? Have a plan! Stay busy or DIE! It is that friend - ing SIMPLE!
Don't be that guy who sits down on the couch and dies in 6 months!!! Indulge a hobby, Travel, Give back to your community thru volunteerism. JUST STAY BUSY!
It does take some getting used to no matter the prep. worked over 40 years total. sleep is the best thing. at first you have plenty to do then you may get a little antsy.I plan a little side hustle, a little volunteering, and a little me time. Zero cold, rain, sleet or snow or anyone telling me what to do. Its still a scary transition.
Im still in my 50s, broke down !! A little nervous about adjusting to a new life. Almost 40 years of structure.
Appreciate your support and inputFor the first 2-3 weeks it will feel like a weird, extended vacation. After that, believe me, you won't look back. The thousands of little things that drove you nuts that you took for granted will disappear. You will sleep better. You are basically being paid to be on vacation. Let that sink in for a minute. You have earned this time.
This is a huge life change, and it is normal to be a little nervous. The nice thing is that this is a hugely positive life change. The first time it snows, you will be able to enjoy it inside. You can enjoy the holiday season with zero stress. When it's 100 degrees in July next year, you can just smile.
I fish every day. My wife and I take a walk just about every day. Shopping is actually fun. I think you will soon find that structure is vastly overrated. Good luck. Enjoy this time and thank you for 40 years of service!
I bought a small dump truck, trailer, stump grinder and trimming tools a couple years back and have another retired driver working for/with me hauling mulch and stone, trimming trees and grinding stumps. He works 20-25 hrs a week and I do a few weekends. Lots of cash jobs and a flexible schedule. Cutting grass is to regimented. I'll retire in a couple years and all my equipment should be paid for and the guy working with me will fully retire.I plan a little side hustle, a little volunteering, and a little me time. Zero cold, rain, sleet or snow or anyone telling me what to do. Its still a scary transition.
I have 21 more work days until retirement and I will have no problem adjusting to it. I hate going to work now after the way the pandemic changed things. I’m looking forward to it.
Fat paychecks. How do you get over those? 70 % cut in pay. Serious question. See, those fat checks allow me to do and have a pretty comfortable life(except the Sucky UPS part). That's why I don't leave and now that my wife is sick.....pretty much sealed it.
ever heard of a 401-k what about a simple savings account some people even bury it in the backyard. How about the term “save for a rainy day”
I have heard that some back in the day even had second jobs on the weekends to help prepare for retirement
If your looking for sympathy because you never saved a dime in 40 years even though ups couldn’t have made it any easier for you
Afraid you’re gonna have to keep looking
Fat paychecks. How do you get over those? 70 % cut in pay. Serious question. See, those fat checks allow me to do and have a pretty comfortable life(except the Sucky UPS part). That's why I don't leave and now that my wife is sick.....pretty much sealed it.