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<blockquote data-quote="sailfish" data-source="post: 3420424" data-attributes="member: 53248"><p>Bro, I am going to give you my honest advice.</p><p></p><p>Your first mistake was getting into a relationship with either of them. The first thing you need to do is break up with both of them. Whether or not you then allow one to know about the other is up to you. But for the sake of stress and hassle, I would advise you don't.</p><p></p><p>Second, you need to focus all of your attention and resources on bettering yourself and doing what <em>you</em> want to do. The length to which you go at this can vary. I was always one to put my priorities first, but a few short years ago I decided the best route to take was to completely end any and all pursuits of intimate relationships to the point of voluntary abstinence. I understand it sounds extreme, but it is the best way to protect myself in the same environment as the likes of #metoo. But believe me when I say I've found ways to stay satisfied regardless.</p><p></p><p>Understanding this route isn't for everyone, I would advise one who doesn't want to take it to this extreme to at least avoid any "serious" dating. Do not get involved with anyone local; be willing to travel so you can disappear without a trace if needed, and never share personal information. And NEVER allow them to move in with you.</p><p></p><p>Then there's the system. NEVER get married. The current state of marriage is so one-sided there is NOTHING you can gain from it except getting raped six ways from Sunday by the court system. Then you have the rampant feminism, the "listen and believe" mentality, the Duluth Model (look it up), #metoo, and on and on and on. Men's lives getting destroyed by false information with NO due process. Getting involved, even without marriage, is just a sour deal whichever way you cut it.</p><p></p><p>Now, especially online or by those who do not know me personally, I am often accused of being some kind of bitter, scorn, heartbroken loser/dork/ugly etc, etc who hates women, is misogynistic, blah blah blah. In fact, this couldn't be <em>further</em> from the truth. You see, I've had my run of fun, but I've stepped back and seen the damage done and I just have way too much to lose at this point in my life. It's become the logical decision. Just doing what I gotta do to adapt and do what's best for me to preserve myself and everything I've worked for.</p><p></p><p>Stress in my personal life is virtually non-existent, and my other personal relationships and friendships are stronger than ever. I am free to do anything I want whenever I want, and go wherever I want. I have all the time in the world to do anything I enjoy and without judgement. Take my advice into consideration, AND NEVER STOP LIFTING, BRUH.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sailfish, post: 3420424, member: 53248"] Bro, I am going to give you my honest advice. Your first mistake was getting into a relationship with either of them. The first thing you need to do is break up with both of them. Whether or not you then allow one to know about the other is up to you. But for the sake of stress and hassle, I would advise you don't. Second, you need to focus all of your attention and resources on bettering yourself and doing what [I]you[/I] want to do. The length to which you go at this can vary. I was always one to put my priorities first, but a few short years ago I decided the best route to take was to completely end any and all pursuits of intimate relationships to the point of voluntary abstinence. I understand it sounds extreme, but it is the best way to protect myself in the same environment as the likes of #metoo. But believe me when I say I've found ways to stay satisfied regardless. Understanding this route isn't for everyone, I would advise one who doesn't want to take it to this extreme to at least avoid any "serious" dating. Do not get involved with anyone local; be willing to travel so you can disappear without a trace if needed, and never share personal information. And NEVER allow them to move in with you. Then there's the system. NEVER get married. The current state of marriage is so one-sided there is NOTHING you can gain from it except getting raped six ways from Sunday by the court system. Then you have the rampant feminism, the "listen and believe" mentality, the Duluth Model (look it up), #metoo, and on and on and on. Men's lives getting destroyed by false information with NO due process. Getting involved, even without marriage, is just a sour deal whichever way you cut it. Now, especially online or by those who do not know me personally, I am often accused of being some kind of bitter, scorn, heartbroken loser/dork/ugly etc, etc who hates women, is misogynistic, blah blah blah. In fact, this couldn't be [I]further[/I] from the truth. You see, I've had my run of fun, but I've stepped back and seen the damage done and I just have way too much to lose at this point in my life. It's become the logical decision. Just doing what I gotta do to adapt and do what's best for me to preserve myself and everything I've worked for. Stress in my personal life is virtually non-existent, and my other personal relationships and friendships are stronger than ever. I am free to do anything I want whenever I want, and go wherever I want. I have all the time in the world to do anything I enjoy and without judgement. Take my advice into consideration, AND NEVER STOP LIFTING, BRUH. [/QUOTE]
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