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<blockquote data-quote="dillweed" data-source="post: 329689" data-attributes="member: 5938"><p>Oh boy, hope I don't shake this thread up but have a few feelings.</p><p> </p><p>If you are not agreeing on things like going out, who does the shopping, running and so forth what's going to happen when an infant enters the picture? Hate to tell you this but a baby will dominate your lives and add stress to the situation. Yes, it's a miracle and sweet and proof of your manhood but it isn't a toy. Babies don't help a troubled marriage and shouldn't be subjected to turmoil. When you come home so tired will you be willing to change diapers, clean up spittle, read to and play with it? Will you be able to understand the frustration of a wife and mother who hasn't had one free minute all day? Will you be willing to run out to the store after work for formula or diapers or will you expect her to bundle the child up and go herself? </p><p> </p><p>Your job is very difficult, it's true but so are other jobs. No one can disregard the work of another person just because they feel it's not difficult. </p><p> </p><p>Seems that compromise is lacking and maybe both of you need to work on that prior to bringing another human being into the situation. </p><p> </p><p>I don't mean to offend or judge your situation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dillweed, post: 329689, member: 5938"] Oh boy, hope I don't shake this thread up but have a few feelings. If you are not agreeing on things like going out, who does the shopping, running and so forth what's going to happen when an infant enters the picture? Hate to tell you this but a baby will dominate your lives and add stress to the situation. Yes, it's a miracle and sweet and proof of your manhood but it isn't a toy. Babies don't help a troubled marriage and shouldn't be subjected to turmoil. When you come home so tired will you be willing to change diapers, clean up spittle, read to and play with it? Will you be able to understand the frustration of a wife and mother who hasn't had one free minute all day? Will you be willing to run out to the store after work for formula or diapers or will you expect her to bundle the child up and go herself? Your job is very difficult, it's true but so are other jobs. No one can disregard the work of another person just because they feel it's not difficult. Seems that compromise is lacking and maybe both of you need to work on that prior to bringing another human being into the situation. I don't mean to offend or judge your situation. [/QUOTE]
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