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<blockquote data-quote="toonertoo" data-source="post: 964633" data-attributes="member: 1944"><p>Thats just why. Why pay so much you are gone. Yes obits can be informative, and heart wrenching, BUT I have been through several funerals, and all that comes to me is</p><p> it doesnt matter how much money you had, how nice your house was, or what you did for a living. People will remember you because of how you made them feel. </p><p>My hope is to have made people feel good. Happy, and alive. if I did that for anyone I need nothing when Im gone. Spread my ashes anywhere. Its symbolic, you are not there. Its just more trauma for those left behind. JMHO. some people I guess need that closure. Hoping my people wont. And yes I have told them and they laugh. Guess I got to write it down and make it legal.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toonertoo, post: 964633, member: 1944"] Thats just why. Why pay so much you are gone. Yes obits can be informative, and heart wrenching, BUT I have been through several funerals, and all that comes to me is it doesnt matter how much money you had, how nice your house was, or what you did for a living. People will remember you because of how you made them feel. My hope is to have made people feel good. Happy, and alive. if I did that for anyone I need nothing when Im gone. Spread my ashes anywhere. Its symbolic, you are not there. Its just more trauma for those left behind. JMHO. some people I guess need that closure. Hoping my people wont. And yes I have told them and they laugh. Guess I got to write it down and make it legal. [/QUOTE]
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