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<blockquote data-quote="jibbs" data-source="post: 1536891">This man obviously knows his way around a DQ date.I&#039;m guessing he doesn&#039;t report anything but is still visibly effected. Body language, mood change, work ethic.... His sup&#039;s notice when he&#039;s pissed/irritated/anxious, even if he doesn&#039;t directly communicate the fact. I&#039;m like that. I&#039;ll let a slight irritation go on and on until it becomes a problem because, when it&#039;s only a slight irritation, it&#039;s not a problem and likely won&#039;t be treated as such. I like to pick and choose my issues so as not to devalue any legitimate complaints in the future.I&#039;m known to do this, and my constant anxiety plays a big role in it. &quot;Why should I speak up if I can work through it?&quot; is something I find myself thinking often. Once I absolutely can&#039;t work through something is when I tend to speak up, because that&#039;s when I&#039;m 100% sure that this snowball of a problem is rolling downhill way too fast for me to keep it under control.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="jibbs, post: 1536891"] This man obviously knows his way around a DQ date. I'm guessing he doesn't report anything but is still visibly effected. Body language, mood change, work ethic.... His sup's notice when he's pissed/irritated/anxious, even if he doesn't directly communicate the fact. I'm like that. I'll let a slight irritation go on and on until it becomes a problem because, when it's only a slight irritation, it's not a problem and likely won't be treated as such. I like to pick and choose my issues so as not to devalue any legitimate complaints in the future. I'm known to do this, and my constant anxiety plays a big role in it. "Why should I speak up if I can work through it?" is something I find myself thinking often. Once I absolutely [B]can't[/B] work through something is when I tend to speak up, because that's when I'm 100% sure that this snowball of a problem is rolling downhill way too fast for me to keep it under control. [/QUOTE]

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