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<blockquote data-quote="dilligaf" data-source="post: 912453" data-attributes="member: 11476"><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #800080">Is it possible that maybe you are projecting your feelings about eating faster than the other person onto the other person? Do you understand what I mean? Instead of acknowledging that you feel bad about eating faster you make it seem like the other person feels bad that they aren't eating fast enough. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #800080"></span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'comic sans ms'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #800080">We have it down, now, although there was some discussion about it early on. I use the time at the table to continue our conversation and enjoy my beverage (whichever one that might be) and continue to let him eat at his pace. I don't (I hope) make him feel like he is slow or that I am in a hurry. Just relax and enjoy the company. </span></span></span><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/its_all_good.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":its_all_good:" title="Its All Good :its_all_good:" data-shortname=":its_all_good:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dilligaf, post: 912453, member: 11476"] [FONT=comic sans ms][SIZE=3][COLOR=#800080]Is it possible that maybe you are projecting your feelings about eating faster than the other person onto the other person? Do you understand what I mean? Instead of acknowledging that you feel bad about eating faster you make it seem like the other person feels bad that they aren't eating fast enough. We have it down, now, although there was some discussion about it early on. I use the time at the table to continue our conversation and enjoy my beverage (whichever one that might be) and continue to let him eat at his pace. I don't (I hope) make him feel like he is slow or that I am in a hurry. Just relax and enjoy the company. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT]:its_all_good: [/QUOTE]
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