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Twelve Step Program Experience ( On Topic Please)
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<blockquote data-quote="bbsam" data-source="post: 4820615" data-attributes="member: 22662"><p>I guess I’ve felt like both. In the end though, I came to the conclusion that it was absolutely unnecessary for others to believe as I did about addiction. I was the one dying. Whether others looked at me with sympathy or disgust wasn’t going to change the fact that my life was spiraling out of control. Lobbying others to see me as I wanted them to see me was a waste of time and in some cases probably counterproductive in a control freak kind of way. So I suppose I have no reason to disagree with the belief that alcoholism is a disease but with that comes the belief that it is treatable. And if a disease is treatable and someone refuses treatment even though it destroys himself and everything around him, then I have no problem with others washing their hands of him and leaving him to his own loser destruction.</p><p></p><p>And I don’t say that lightly. I’ve seen so many instances with families trying everything to accommodate an alcoholic. Trying everything to get her to stop and it inevitably destroys careers, lives, families, friendships, bank accounts, sanity, freedom and eventually kills. If walking away from that situation and calling the individual a loser prevents that, I’m all for it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="bbsam, post: 4820615, member: 22662"] I guess I’ve felt like both. In the end though, I came to the conclusion that it was absolutely unnecessary for others to believe as I did about addiction. I was the one dying. Whether others looked at me with sympathy or disgust wasn’t going to change the fact that my life was spiraling out of control. Lobbying others to see me as I wanted them to see me was a waste of time and in some cases probably counterproductive in a control freak kind of way. So I suppose I have no reason to disagree with the belief that alcoholism is a disease but with that comes the belief that it is treatable. And if a disease is treatable and someone refuses treatment even though it destroys himself and everything around him, then I have no problem with others washing their hands of him and leaving him to his own loser destruction. And I don’t say that lightly. I’ve seen so many instances with families trying everything to accommodate an alcoholic. Trying everything to get her to stop and it inevitably destroys careers, lives, families, friendships, bank accounts, sanity, freedom and eventually kills. If walking away from that situation and calling the individual a loser prevents that, I’m all for it. [/QUOTE]
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