Do I have a choice of who I choose as my union rep when I receive write ups? I recently got one for missing a day of work outside of my days..it was deserved I know I was out of days. while the sup was talking to me I just listened and nodded my head..i wasn't angry it was what it was. anyways the rep was yelling in my face and when I asked to have someone else I was told I didn't have a choice, it felt like she was on the sups side and not mine at all . I know there isn't any defending my absence but I surely didn't deserve to be treated like a dog and then I was forced to sign by her after I rts'd because I didn't like her attitude towards me. It was like she wanted me to get mad and make the situation worse..then after walking away the sup said thank you to her and she walks up and literally gets in my face and yells back to him, anytime! ill deal with this one anytime like trying to get me intimidated..anyways if I happen to ever get another write up and im sure I will bcuz im human do I have to use her or do I have a choice? or do I need a rep at all ? can I decline having anyone represent me?