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Ups driver going through a divorce. It's hard
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<blockquote data-quote="Future" data-source="post: 1515347" data-attributes="member: 46980"><p>Very hard....I had no family to rely on and did have one child involved. What got me through in a summary was friends. My first concern was my son, to make sure he was safe and secure. I did have primary custody of him for about a year during the long and ugly divorce proceedings. He played travel hockey at the time and the "hockey moms and dads" really came through to help me along in all aspects of his wellness.Feel fortunate you have no children involved in your situation.It is difficult to start over with this job(hrs).....my advice to you is dont go hell bent looking for a new relationship (as I kinda did)....it will come naturally and at the oddest moment.....you need to stay strong(as possible).....stay away from boozin or going out to bars late etc unless that is a norm for you....In the end you dont want your job performance to plummet and get yourself in deep caca there. Talk to your sups or center manager(if you can) if you are having issues emotionally with the situation, they should allow a little grace period for you to regroup etc.....but dont count on it for to long.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Future, post: 1515347, member: 46980"] Very hard....I had no family to rely on and did have one child involved. What got me through in a summary was friends. My first concern was my son, to make sure he was safe and secure. I did have primary custody of him for about a year during the long and ugly divorce proceedings. He played travel hockey at the time and the "hockey moms and dads" really came through to help me along in all aspects of his wellness.Feel fortunate you have no children involved in your situation.It is difficult to start over with this job(hrs).....my advice to you is dont go hell bent looking for a new relationship (as I kinda did)....it will come naturally and at the oddest moment.....you need to stay strong(as possible).....stay away from boozin or going out to bars late etc unless that is a norm for you....In the end you dont want your job performance to plummet and get yourself in deep caca there. Talk to your sups or center manager(if you can) if you are having issues emotionally with the situation, they should allow a little grace period for you to regroup etc.....but dont count on it for to long. [/QUOTE]
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