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Why The High Divorce Rate?
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<blockquote data-quote="RitchieDavies" data-source="post: 1193821" data-attributes="member: 48751"><p>"Have you or your little buddy Orly ever been in a serious relationship?" ...I have and am in one currently, but as ORLY!?! has pointed out, this isn't about me. But to be fair, it's not about you either since you're already married and are obviously against a prenuptial agreement. I say that just to remind you that I'm not judging you at the end of the day; it's your marriage and your money (and possessions for that matter) do what you wish, I just personally think that a person getting one would be wise. It's all my opinion, nothing more.</p><p></p><p>"I would think someone with nothing would get laughed at by a woman when you suggest a prenup." Then she shouldn't have any problem signing one then, no?</p><p></p><p>"Bottom line is if you want to be independent, why get married? Why not amass your fortune solo?" ...I suppose, but why should she get half of everything you have before and after marrying her? A man is never gonna get half of what a woman possesses when they split, so how is that fair? The only way I could MAYBE see a divorce settlement as somewhat fair is if you had children under 18 and she didn't have a job, meaning she virtually has nothing when you split. If you're both working, have separate bank accounts (which I'd also agree on btw) and could support yourselves off your own income, why should she be able to live comfortably with her new BF/Husband with half of your possessions?!? Now you seem like a fair man, so if you were to divorce a woman even with a prenup, I'm sure you wouldn't just leave her with nothing (unless... you divorced for other reasons). But with a prenup, if the marriage ended badly, she couldn't spitefully by law, take it, you see? That's all I'm saying.</p><p></p><p>But I digress...</p><p></p><p>Once again, I'm not <img src="http://*" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /><img src="http://*" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /><img src="http://*" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" /><img src="http://*" alt="" class="fr-fic fr-dii fr-draggable " style="" />ting on your marriage, I wish you well. This is pretty much the reasons why one should have a prenup vs the reasons why one shouldn't have one to me. Conflicting opinions, in other words. I'm not referring to your marriage specifically.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RitchieDavies, post: 1193821, member: 48751"] "Have you or your little buddy Orly ever been in a serious relationship?" ...I have and am in one currently, but as ORLY!?! has pointed out, this isn't about me. But to be fair, it's not about you either since you're already married and are obviously against a prenuptial agreement. I say that just to remind you that I'm not judging you at the end of the day; it's your marriage and your money (and possessions for that matter) do what you wish, I just personally think that a person getting one would be wise. It's all my opinion, nothing more. "I would think someone with nothing would get laughed at by a woman when you suggest a prenup." Then she shouldn't have any problem signing one then, no? "Bottom line is if you want to be independent, why get married? Why not amass your fortune solo?" ...I suppose, but why should she get half of everything you have before and after marrying her? A man is never gonna get half of what a woman possesses when they split, so how is that fair? The only way I could MAYBE see a divorce settlement as somewhat fair is if you had children under 18 and she didn't have a job, meaning she virtually has nothing when you split. If you're both working, have separate bank accounts (which I'd also agree on btw) and could support yourselves off your own income, why should she be able to live comfortably with her new BF/Husband with half of your possessions?!? Now you seem like a fair man, so if you were to divorce a woman even with a prenup, I'm sure you wouldn't just leave her with nothing (unless... you divorced for other reasons). But with a prenup, if the marriage ended badly, she couldn't spitefully by law, take it, you see? That's all I'm saying. But I digress... Once again, I'm not [IMG]*[/IMG][IMG]*[/IMG][IMG]*[/IMG][IMG]*[/IMG]ting on your marriage, I wish you well. This is pretty much the reasons why one should have a prenup vs the reasons why one shouldn't have one to me. Conflicting opinions, in other words. I'm not referring to your marriage specifically. [/QUOTE]
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