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<blockquote data-quote="Ms.PacMan" data-source="post: 1096553" data-attributes="member: 4656"><p>mistakenly...., lol <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/group1/sneaky2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":sneaky2:" title="Sneaky2 :sneaky2:" data-shortname=":sneaky2:" /> I think those social worker's are smart....line 'em up, move 'em out <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/cowboysmile.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":cowboysmile:" title="Cowboysmile :cowboysmile:" data-shortname=":cowboysmile:" /></p><p></p><p>My advice to you would be that she will know she is like someone out there, so avoid the "didn't quite seem to have it all together upstairs" comments about her birth mother (I'm sure you would anyway) so she doesn't internalize that to mean she will be like that and reverse it like my parents did - you're so cute, funny, smart etc. I bet your birth parents were those things.</p><p></p><p>Any adoptee will tell you that you will always feel like her real parents and if you wnt her to be your girl then she will be!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ms.PacMan, post: 1096553, member: 4656"] mistakenly...., lol :sneaky2: I think those social worker's are smart....line 'em up, move 'em out :cowboysmile: My advice to you would be that she will know she is like someone out there, so avoid the "didn't quite seem to have it all together upstairs" comments about her birth mother (I'm sure you would anyway) so she doesn't internalize that to mean she will be like that and reverse it like my parents did - you're so cute, funny, smart etc. I bet your birth parents were those things. Any adoptee will tell you that you will always feel like her real parents and if you wnt her to be your girl then she will be! [/QUOTE]
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