Homosexuality is just one of many sins that we're told not to do. Ultimately they're bad for us and God wants us to have the best life possible. There are those claiming Christianity these days who believe you can be gay and still be ok. I know that from personal experience because I was in love in my 20's with a woman who's now "married" to another woman. Ultimately it's up to God to judge. But for certain the lasciviousness and decadence that seems to be common among gay men is not nor will ever be acceptable. If that upsets you you'll just have to live with it. Doesn't mean I hate you. But I do believe you're caught up in a sin. And I believe I have to be careful not to ever get caught up in sin myself. And I'm a weak, sinful being who has to try. Gets easier the more you try. It's just a matter of whether you believe, and whether you want to be pleasing to God. And being in a community that believes the same makes it that much easier.