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<blockquote data-quote="dilligaf" data-source="post: 524196" data-attributes="member: 11476"><p>First of all, I love to flirt. I agree with Tooner, heaven forbid it is ever outlawed, I would be an outlaw.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Second, there are some very good posts. </p><p> </p><p>Trpl, I think there is a big difference between 'flirting' and 'hitting on' someone. The intention of one is not the same as the intention of the other. And as far as married or attached couples flirting, that is all dependant upon the relationship they have. I have an extremely good relationship, and that allows me to be who I am in complete safety. I agree with you about men and women being close friends. Unfortunately there will always be a stigma in our society about it. I have very close male friends and I value them just as much as I do my women friends. In some cases even more so. </p><p> </p><p>Jennie, it absolutely does matter as to how well you know the other person. At work I don't flirt with just anyone. And the ones that I do flirt with I know well enough to feel comfortable in doing so. With many of them, it has taken months and months of delivering to them or even working with them to feel safe with them. </p><p> </p><p>As far as what's over the line and what is not, that is subjective. It would be impossible to define either because people have their own individual emotions and personalities. No two will ever be exactly the same. I am the touchy/feely type, but I am constantly counseling myself to not do that because some would consider it an invasion of their personal space and would be offended.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dilligaf, post: 524196, member: 11476"] First of all, I love to flirt. I agree with Tooner, heaven forbid it is ever outlawed, I would be an outlaw. Second, there are some very good posts. Trpl, I think there is a big difference between 'flirting' and 'hitting on' someone. The intention of one is not the same as the intention of the other. And as far as married or attached couples flirting, that is all dependant upon the relationship they have. I have an extremely good relationship, and that allows me to be who I am in complete safety. I agree with you about men and women being close friends. Unfortunately there will always be a stigma in our society about it. I have very close male friends and I value them just as much as I do my women friends. In some cases even more so. Jennie, it absolutely does matter as to how well you know the other person. At work I don't flirt with just anyone. And the ones that I do flirt with I know well enough to feel comfortable in doing so. With many of them, it has taken months and months of delivering to them or even working with them to feel safe with them. As far as what's over the line and what is not, that is subjective. It would be impossible to define either because people have their own individual emotions and personalities. No two will ever be exactly the same. I am the touchy/feely type, but I am constantly counseling myself to not do that because some would consider it an invasion of their personal space and would be offended. [/QUOTE]
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