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<blockquote data-quote="toonertoo" data-source="post: 1056030" data-attributes="member: 1944"><p>Really, I think I kinda disagree. If you have a weakness for addictions, you probably shouldnt engage in it. I like to drink, I know if I go over the edge I will have consequences. I just never got that part about its not my fault. Now if you have a mental illness, not your fault, it could trigger those, so I think that question my friend remains in a gray area. I feel with more self responsibility, you may not make those choices. If I knew I could go home and live in Mommas basement I may have made a different choice, since I dont it has made me responsible. I dont know that we are so far apart on this one. I always knew if I fell off a cliff, I would go splat at the end. No one would save me. So I dont know if I consider it a choice, I think in most cases I do, but the jury for me is still out.</p><p>Ive seen guys and spent lots of time with them when we used to all hang out, go totally off the cliff, when they lost their wife, through an affair, and it drove them off a cliff, lost their job, kids, etc. I can never see turning to drugs or alcohol to recover from that, I felt that was a stupid choice, and a better one would have benefited them more. Such as doing well is the best revenge. I just dont see how losing a lover , Ok maybe a pity party for a week or two, but to lose your liveliehood, and life over a wench, or a jerk. dont get it. My ex did it, drank himself into a stuper, on anti depression meds, and blew his brains out. he had ditched so many women, including me, and he killed himself over one? I still dont get it. Totally devastated my son. So like I say, I dont know what causes these addictions, I just know I wont let anything have power over my mind, or life. </p><p></p><p></p><p>If so she got too much!!! Obviously doesnt need it or the lobster trains been outta town.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toonertoo, post: 1056030, member: 1944"] Really, I think I kinda disagree. If you have a weakness for addictions, you probably shouldnt engage in it. I like to drink, I know if I go over the edge I will have consequences. I just never got that part about its not my fault. Now if you have a mental illness, not your fault, it could trigger those, so I think that question my friend remains in a gray area. I feel with more self responsibility, you may not make those choices. If I knew I could go home and live in Mommas basement I may have made a different choice, since I dont it has made me responsible. I dont know that we are so far apart on this one. I always knew if I fell off a cliff, I would go splat at the end. No one would save me. So I dont know if I consider it a choice, I think in most cases I do, but the jury for me is still out. Ive seen guys and spent lots of time with them when we used to all hang out, go totally off the cliff, when they lost their wife, through an affair, and it drove them off a cliff, lost their job, kids, etc. I can never see turning to drugs or alcohol to recover from that, I felt that was a stupid choice, and a better one would have benefited them more. Such as doing well is the best revenge. I just dont see how losing a lover , Ok maybe a pity party for a week or two, but to lose your liveliehood, and life over a wench, or a jerk. dont get it. My ex did it, drank himself into a stuper, on anti depression meds, and blew his brains out. he had ditched so many women, including me, and he killed himself over one? I still dont get it. Totally devastated my son. So like I say, I dont know what causes these addictions, I just know I wont let anything have power over my mind, or life. If so she got too much!!! Obviously doesnt need it or the lobster trains been outta town. [/QUOTE]
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