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<blockquote data-quote="dannyboy" data-source="post: 637966" data-attributes="member: 484"><p>Sorry to see your first post had to be on this subject.</p><p> </p><p>BTW, welcome.</p><p> </p><p>Dill</p><p> </p><p>Children are resilient if allowed. There are a lot of things that they can overcome if supported properly. It mostly centers on parents and family, as to the extent of the healing of the wound.</p><p> </p><p>Reminds me of a child in Vietnam. Parents broke the child's leg, and left it to beg where our GI's would see it. </p><p> </p><p>Our guys brought in in for care, and it was set and pinned. Shortly after release, the child was back as a beggar with the leg broken again, by the parents, so she could beg.</p><p> </p><p>While not as obvious, some parents have real problems in dealing with the fact that their child was molested "under their watch". And at times, when the offending person is a close family member, it makes the whole soup of issues even worse.</p><p> </p><p>Some parents need counseling worse than the child (I really think most, but that is my personal observation). And because they dont know how to properly address issues and problems, they make it worse, and in some cases, much worse. And when that happens, there is no chance of ever healing to the point where normal life begins. And that is such a shame. Its almost like the child is the one at fault for ripping a family apart, and to the child, they feel responsible. </p><p> </p><p>And that is if the parent is not the offender, so you can only imagine how bad it gets when they are. (or in the cases of some of the posters here, you know)</p><p> </p><p>Unfortunately, child abuse (sexual abuse, child exploitation etc) has been around since the cave man. Unfortunately as well, our punishment system for that type of offense is still in the stone age as well.</p><p> </p><p>That being said, Child sexual abuse false arrests are very common.</p><p> </p><p>Take my neighbor. He was married, had two sons. Wife was screwing around with a guy, and she wanted to leave. She also wanted the boys, so she swore out abuse charges against the dad. They arrested him and place him in jail pending additional charges. </p><p> </p><p>The new boyfriend told the mother he was not interested in dealing with her bas&#$^$ kids. So the mother, two days after she swore out the charges, recanted, and gave the father full custody of the boys.</p><p> </p><p>That was almost two years ago, he still has the boys. The state never has charged the mother with anything. And the arrest still appears on his record when pulled. And now, on top of all that, he is dealing with brain cancer.</p><p> </p><p>Personally, I think that mother ought to be in jail for quite a while, if we lived in a fair world, with justice for all.....</p><p> </p><p>Sorry for the rant, but abuse is a tender subject for a lot of people, me included.</p><p> </p><p>d</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="dannyboy, post: 637966, member: 484"] Sorry to see your first post had to be on this subject. BTW, welcome. Dill Children are resilient if allowed. There are a lot of things that they can overcome if supported properly. It mostly centers on parents and family, as to the extent of the healing of the wound. Reminds me of a child in Vietnam. Parents broke the child's leg, and left it to beg where our GI's would see it. Our guys brought in in for care, and it was set and pinned. Shortly after release, the child was back as a beggar with the leg broken again, by the parents, so she could beg. While not as obvious, some parents have real problems in dealing with the fact that their child was molested "under their watch". And at times, when the offending person is a close family member, it makes the whole soup of issues even worse. Some parents need counseling worse than the child (I really think most, but that is my personal observation). And because they dont know how to properly address issues and problems, they make it worse, and in some cases, much worse. And when that happens, there is no chance of ever healing to the point where normal life begins. And that is such a shame. Its almost like the child is the one at fault for ripping a family apart, and to the child, they feel responsible. And that is if the parent is not the offender, so you can only imagine how bad it gets when they are. (or in the cases of some of the posters here, you know) Unfortunately, child abuse (sexual abuse, child exploitation etc) has been around since the cave man. Unfortunately as well, our punishment system for that type of offense is still in the stone age as well. That being said, Child sexual abuse false arrests are very common. Take my neighbor. He was married, had two sons. Wife was screwing around with a guy, and she wanted to leave. She also wanted the boys, so she swore out abuse charges against the dad. They arrested him and place him in jail pending additional charges. The new boyfriend told the mother he was not interested in dealing with her bas&#$^$ kids. So the mother, two days after she swore out the charges, recanted, and gave the father full custody of the boys. That was almost two years ago, he still has the boys. The state never has charged the mother with anything. And the arrest still appears on his record when pulled. And now, on top of all that, he is dealing with brain cancer. Personally, I think that mother ought to be in jail for quite a while, if we lived in a fair world, with justice for all..... Sorry for the rant, but abuse is a tender subject for a lot of people, me included. d [/QUOTE]
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