yea your absolutely right, everyones a loser and its all our fault.
i should be like you, and work 50+ hours a week and have no life, and pay all my money to the landlord or bank
Well, if you don't even attempt to better your lot in life, you are pretty much a loser.
And, as for me, don't worry. I work maybe 15 hours a week, and that's just for grins. Contrary to what some (one) think, I certainly don't have to. But, it's fun.
And days I don't work, my life is full hanging out with my grandchildren.
Move, get a real job, and make something of yourself.