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<blockquote data-quote="trplnkl" data-source="post: 539266" data-attributes="member: 13254"><p>Steve, I'm really glad you started this thread I think it's been a good one.</p><p> Now I want to preface what I'm about to say. I do not pretend to be a physiologist but I have talked to more than a few (only two professionally during the divorce). One fairly recently was an intern at the Rehab place, we sat and just gabbed several times, not a session. At one point we hit on the thoughts you had in your post that I underlined. One thing that happens to marriages is that the little things often go over looked. Some probably think that they will just work out, some that it's no big deal. However sometimes that "little thing" is placed on a shelf along with the other "little things" that have not been addressed. They can, and sometimes do, add up to the point that, they cause the shelf to collapse from the unaddressed weight.</p><p> I'm not saying every little thing that happens in day to day life becomes a major problem but if they carry more weight for one of the people in the marriage, they can.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="trplnkl, post: 539266, member: 13254"] Steve, I'm really glad you started this thread I think it's been a good one. Now I want to preface what I'm about to say. I do not pretend to be a physiologist but I have talked to more than a few (only two professionally during the divorce). One fairly recently was an intern at the Rehab place, we sat and just gabbed several times, not a session. At one point we hit on the thoughts you had in your post that I underlined. One thing that happens to marriages is that the little things often go over looked. Some probably think that they will just work out, some that it's no big deal. However sometimes that "little thing" is placed on a shelf along with the other "little things" that have not been addressed. They can, and sometimes do, add up to the point that, they cause the shelf to collapse from the unaddressed weight. I'm not saying every little thing that happens in day to day life becomes a major problem but if they carry more weight for one of the people in the marriage, they can. [/QUOTE]
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