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IN VINO VERITAS
I need some different perspectives.
My friends are important to me but I don't keep secrets from my spouse. Ever. Maybe I'm not seeing the 'big picture' here, but trust is important to me. And to me the #1 trust is always at home. So I need some other perspectives.
Scenario 1
Your friend (very close to both you and your spouse) comes to you and tells you something personal and important going on in his/her life. Only the friend asks you to not repeat the 'secret' to your spouse. Do you keep your friends confidence or do you trust your spouse and repeat the 'secret'?
Scenario 2
The other side of the coin: You find out that your spouse kept the 'secret' from you. How do you react?
My friends are important to me but I don't keep secrets from my spouse. Ever. Maybe I'm not seeing the 'big picture' here, but trust is important to me. And to me the #1 trust is always at home. So I need some other perspectives.