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<blockquote data-quote="toonertoo" data-source="post: 558885" data-attributes="member: 1944"><p>I dont get it, spanking out of anger is abuse, a few wacks on the butt is OK with me. I remember when I was "cool" walking out of the house, slamming the door, telling my dad to go to Hell, and when I never heard the door slam shut, I was in deeeeeeppppp dooodooo. He rarely used that tactic on me, but when he did it was a learning process, and I can say talking nice to me and giving me a time out would not have worked. I had to be brought into reality and I was so full of my self and knew it all that a whack is all that worked. </p><p>And I dont have deep trauma over it. You screw up, you get whacked. Dont want to get whacked? Quit acting that way, worked for me. </p><p>Depends who you ask if I turned out OK or not.</p><p>Now if I see someone out of control, I would soon er say something to someone who is mfing a kid, than one who is whacking them gently. The language will bring out the Mom in me, that is unacceptable. I never heard the friend bomb til I was like 13, and it was not from Dad or Mom.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toonertoo, post: 558885, member: 1944"] I dont get it, spanking out of anger is abuse, a few wacks on the butt is OK with me. I remember when I was "cool" walking out of the house, slamming the door, telling my dad to go to Hell, and when I never heard the door slam shut, I was in deeeeeeppppp dooodooo. He rarely used that tactic on me, but when he did it was a learning process, and I can say talking nice to me and giving me a time out would not have worked. I had to be brought into reality and I was so full of my self and knew it all that a whack is all that worked. And I dont have deep trauma over it. You screw up, you get whacked. Dont want to get whacked? Quit acting that way, worked for me. Depends who you ask if I turned out OK or not. Now if I see someone out of control, I would soon er say something to someone who is mfing a kid, than one who is whacking them gently. The language will bring out the Mom in me, that is unacceptable. I never heard the friend bomb til I was like 13, and it was not from Dad or Mom. [/QUOTE]
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