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<blockquote data-quote="UPS Lifer" data-source="post: 334252" data-attributes="member: 9789"><p><strong>Both</strong> of you need to get on the same page. You are getting some great advice from both sides but the most important thing is <strong>you & your husband and children's happiness.</strong> Forget about UPS for a minute....</p><p></p><p>You should tell your husband, what you think and you need to understand how and what he feels. Then you will need to give a little on both sides.</p><p></p><p>This is important for your marriage. If needed seek out some professional guidance and dialog. </p><p></p><p>I started UPS at 19 and I was married at 20 and we are still going strong 35 years later. I moved up the ranks at UPS, it was both Heaven & Hell and without my wife's support I could not have been successful. <strong>Her support was critical especially when times were tough.</strong> </p><p></p><p>By all standards ... we should have been divorced 30 years ago!</p><p></p><p>Based on your posts, my feeling is that if you do not get this settled your family will be in jeopardy at some point (if not already) and I am sure you do not want that, otherwise you would not have reached out on this forum. </p><p></p><p>BTW - What makes you think it will be "a little slice of Heaven" somewhere else? - Every company has it's own set of challenges. How does your husband feel about his job? </p><p></p><p>Just as an example - I have a friend that has an HR degree and has been laid off at 5 different companies over 35 years - the last being, Home Depot last week! He worked at Disneyland for 20 years - He ended up retiring from that job and complained about their corporate culture!</p><p></p><p>What is the most important thing - money or family. I am not judging you. I picked money years ago and lost sight of family!!! As long as you are both on the same page!!!</p><p></p><p>Rent "Family Man" with Tia Leone & Nicolas Cage. It will make my point and could very well go against UPS!!! I t may also open some dialog with you and your husband!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="UPS Lifer, post: 334252, member: 9789"] [B]Both[/B] of you need to get on the same page. You are getting some great advice from both sides but the most important thing is [B]you & your husband and children's happiness.[/B] Forget about UPS for a minute.... You should tell your husband, what you think and you need to understand how and what he feels. Then you will need to give a little on both sides. This is important for your marriage. If needed seek out some professional guidance and dialog. I started UPS at 19 and I was married at 20 and we are still going strong 35 years later. I moved up the ranks at UPS, it was both Heaven & Hell and without my wife's support I could not have been successful. [B]Her support was critical especially when times were tough.[/B] By all standards ... we should have been divorced 30 years ago! Based on your posts, my feeling is that if you do not get this settled your family will be in jeopardy at some point (if not already) and I am sure you do not want that, otherwise you would not have reached out on this forum. BTW - What makes you think it will be "a little slice of Heaven" somewhere else? - Every company has it's own set of challenges. How does your husband feel about his job? Just as an example - I have a friend that has an HR degree and has been laid off at 5 different companies over 35 years - the last being, Home Depot last week! He worked at Disneyland for 20 years - He ended up retiring from that job and complained about their corporate culture! What is the most important thing - money or family. I am not judging you. I picked money years ago and lost sight of family!!! As long as you are both on the same page!!! Rent "Family Man" with Tia Leone & Nicolas Cage. It will make my point and could very well go against UPS!!! I t may also open some dialog with you and your husband! [/QUOTE]
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