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<blockquote data-quote="vantexan" data-source="post: 2919656" data-attributes="member: 24302"><p>If you must know, we were waiting out several months, 4 to be exact, for the tenant in our home to leave when his lease expired.&nbsp; We were staying in a weekly rental in Branson, MO which was basically a motel room with kitchenette.&nbsp; Branson is so overbuilt you can get weekly rooms there pretty reasonable.&nbsp; It was the best I could come up with on my pension.&nbsp; I had already paid $4000 of her credit card debt after cashing out my 401k and portable pension, leaving her with just one.&nbsp; I paid off all my cards too except for one.&nbsp; The rest we lived on plus my pension until we were down to just my pension.&nbsp; She didn&#039;t like living in a motel room, wanted something better, pushed me to rent a place in Kansas City that would&#039;ve cost over $900 a month.&nbsp; Told her we didn&#039;t have the money.&nbsp; I found a large room for $500 a month in a house but she didn&#039;t want to do that.&nbsp; She left me to move in with a friend in Kansas.&nbsp; Was nice enough to drop me off at Avis where I got a decent one way rental to El Paso where I had located an affordable studio.&nbsp; Halfway there had to euthanize my 16 year old dog who had cancer.&nbsp; He was the reason I was staying in the States before going to Mexico.&nbsp; I was very distraught, my Dad suggested I go on to Mexico and he bought the ticket.&nbsp; My wife was supposed to start a $12hr job shortly after moving into her friend&#039;s house.&nbsp; She decided against it, briefly worked in a restaurant, and is now starting a $12hr job she&#039;s happy with.&nbsp; We&#039;ve since made up, and were going to go to Europe early August.&nbsp; She&#039;s decided against that, is moving into her house, and her daughter will move in and share expenses.&nbsp; My diabetes is such I can&#039;t stand on my feet for long periods anymore.&nbsp; So I&#039;m going to where I can get by on less than $400 a month, and will up my monthly amount to her from $500 to $700.&nbsp; I&#039;ve been married to her for close to 4 years now.&nbsp; We got married because we were going to travel.&nbsp; That was never her real intent.&nbsp; But I am going to travel, I will get her house paid off, and then I&#039;m coming home.&nbsp; Yes, I shared too much, as you always say.&nbsp; But you always take the little bits of my personal life and twist them into something terrible.&nbsp; As I&#039;ve said before, that&#039;s all you&#039;re interested in doing.&nbsp; I know what I&#039;m doing for my wife, and just some friendly advice.&nbsp; Keep your comments about others relationships to yourself.&nbsp; You&#039;re going to spout off in person to someone someday and they are going to hurt you.&nbsp; And that&#039;s a train wreck that will probably happen because you can&#039;t seem to control yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>

[QUOTE="vantexan, post: 2919656, member: 24302"] If you must know, we were waiting out several months, 4 to be exact, for the tenant in our home to leave when his lease expired. We were staying in a weekly rental in Branson, MO which was basically a motel room with kitchenette. Branson is so overbuilt you can get weekly rooms there pretty reasonable. It was the best I could come up with on my pension. I had already paid $4000 of her credit card debt after cashing out my 401k and portable pension, leaving her with just one. I paid off all my cards too except for one. The rest we lived on plus my pension until we were down to just my pension. She didn't like living in a motel room, wanted something better, pushed me to rent a place in Kansas City that would've cost over $900 a month. Told her we didn't have the money. I found a large room for $500 a month in a house but she didn't want to do that. She left me to move in with a friend in Kansas. Was nice enough to drop me off at Avis where I got a decent one way rental to El Paso where I had located an affordable studio. Halfway there had to euthanize my 16 year old dog who had cancer. He was the reason I was staying in the States before going to Mexico. I was very distraught, my Dad suggested I go on to Mexico and he bought the ticket. My wife was supposed to start a $12hr job shortly after moving into her friend's house. She decided against it, briefly worked in a restaurant, and is now starting a $12hr job she's happy with. We've since made up, and were going to go to Europe early August. She's decided against that, is moving into her house, and her daughter will move in and share expenses. My diabetes is such I can't stand on my feet for long periods anymore. So I'm going to where I can get by on less than $400 a month, and will up my monthly amount to her from $500 to $700. I've been married to her for close to 4 years now. We got married because we were going to travel. That was never her real intent. But I am going to travel, I will get her house paid off, and then I'm coming home. Yes, I shared too much, as you always say. But you always take the little bits of my personal life and twist them into something terrible. As I've said before, that's all you're interested in doing. I know what I'm doing for my wife, and just some friendly advice. Keep your comments about others relationships to yourself. You're going to spout off in person to someone someday and they are going to hurt you. And that's a train wreck that will probably happen because you can't seem to control yourself. [/QUOTE]

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