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Is there anything you can recommend? Security? HR? I just want him to stop
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<blockquote data-quote="toonertoo" data-source="post: 998665" data-attributes="member: 1944"><p>I totally agree with soberups, thankfully she seems to at least be looking for a way out. You would be suprised at what it takes to get yourself out of one of these relationships. People get so beat down they think there is no up. The verbal abuse is sometimes worse than the physical, and the loss of friends who were mutual, and the yarn spins. And I 110% agree if you have never been there, I hope you never are. I am hoping she is a strong enough woman, and I think she is, to move past this. Its not that easy to "move on", and the money is a very small part. Of course if he loses his job, she loses part of the way she supports the children they had together. </p><p>I just hope she makes better decisions the next time, I know I was not smart enough to. it took me two failed relationships. One day I had a gun at my head, its not fun. Karma will come around, my once abusive husband used the same gun on himself a few yrs ago. It actually saddened me, as he had apologized, years after I moved past it. And it ripped my sons life apart. So I dont take these things lightly. </p><p>I hope she can get through this, I do not know what makes people this way. No one deserves it. </p><p>And I am glad she had somewhere to go ask for suggestions.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toonertoo, post: 998665, member: 1944"] I totally agree with soberups, thankfully she seems to at least be looking for a way out. You would be suprised at what it takes to get yourself out of one of these relationships. People get so beat down they think there is no up. The verbal abuse is sometimes worse than the physical, and the loss of friends who were mutual, and the yarn spins. And I 110% agree if you have never been there, I hope you never are. I am hoping she is a strong enough woman, and I think she is, to move past this. Its not that easy to "move on", and the money is a very small part. Of course if he loses his job, she loses part of the way she supports the children they had together. I just hope she makes better decisions the next time, I know I was not smart enough to. it took me two failed relationships. One day I had a gun at my head, its not fun. Karma will come around, my once abusive husband used the same gun on himself a few yrs ago. It actually saddened me, as he had apologized, years after I moved past it. And it ripped my sons life apart. So I dont take these things lightly. I hope she can get through this, I do not know what makes people this way. No one deserves it. And I am glad she had somewhere to go ask for suggestions. [/QUOTE]
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