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<blockquote data-quote="TUT" data-source="post: 853720" data-attributes="member: 29298"><p>I don't go by the PC book as I find it closely aligned to the corporate world. Aka the tough love responses here, it sounds all nice, but reality imo is much different. I would love him. A lot of kids that age have angry syndrome for a lot of reasons. I wouldn't be all that happy with how the world is going either at age 20 myself and I've yelled at my parents and it really didn't phase them at all. I grew up and out of that, pushing me out would have done nothing really, making a point can't be petty on either end. </p><p></p><p>I know we all want the perfect situation, but even those are far from it. If it were drugs that would be even more reason to get'm back, not push him away. My niece's boyfriend ended up dead, they were doing drugs, they convicted her of murder because she was there with them. Talk about a bad deal there. Believe me a little heat at home would have been a world better. We are young and dumb and we almost all grow up to thank and love our parents in the long run.</p><p></p><p>TV and Internets are so predictable on how they handle things as if we have perfect control of people and situations.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TUT, post: 853720, member: 29298"] I don't go by the PC book as I find it closely aligned to the corporate world. Aka the tough love responses here, it sounds all nice, but reality imo is much different. I would love him. A lot of kids that age have angry syndrome for a lot of reasons. I wouldn't be all that happy with how the world is going either at age 20 myself and I've yelled at my parents and it really didn't phase them at all. I grew up and out of that, pushing me out would have done nothing really, making a point can't be petty on either end. I know we all want the perfect situation, but even those are far from it. If it were drugs that would be even more reason to get'm back, not push him away. My niece's boyfriend ended up dead, they were doing drugs, they convicted her of murder because she was there with them. Talk about a bad deal there. Believe me a little heat at home would have been a world better. We are young and dumb and we almost all grow up to thank and love our parents in the long run. TV and Internets are so predictable on how they handle things as if we have perfect control of people and situations. [/QUOTE]
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