As always you twist things. Where did I say every single mother was on welfare? I said the way things were set up at one time if a young woman had a child and she wasn't married to a man who could support her she could get assistance. But there was a loophole. If she had another child, as long as she was single, she could get even more assistance. Plenty of women had multiple children out of wedlock knowing they'd be taken care of by the state.
I think with some searching you'll find this was true. Why do you think Clinton signed welfare reform into law? What exactly do you think they were reforming? From my own experience working in a supermarket in the late 70's, early 80's saw plenty of women come in and pay for basket loads of good food with food stamps. I'm not against giving assistance to those in need, but I believe it's wrong for able bodied people to make a lifestyle out of it. If all that's available is McDonald's and Wal-Mart then work there. Welfare reform made it possible for people who are working in poorly paid jobs to get some assistance to feed their kids and such. But the key word is working. And I've heard people express anger and frustration at working lousy jobs in order to get that assistance. They'd rather just stay home and collect like it used to be. Life is hard.