Speaking of life insurance reminds me of an incident that happened in the Center I drove out of.
We had a operation report clerk, which was a Teamster job. He was married with two small children. His wife decided she didn't want to be married to him and filed for divorce. He got custody of the children in the divorce settlement.
The ex-wife moved to Florida and re-married a year later. The clerk remained single, living with his mother who helped raise his children.
Several years later the clerk developed brain cancer and passed away. It was a tragic situation
When the time came to settle his estate, it turned out that he had never changed the beneficiary on his life insurance and Thrift Plan. His re-married ex-wife was still listed as his beneficiary. The Ex recieved it all, leaving his two small children (ages 8 and 6) with nothing. His elderly mother got custody of the children, because the Ex didn't want them.
If that wasn't bad enough, a month after the Ex recieved the insurance and Thrift Plan monies, she was killed in an auto accident. Guess who then recieved those monies. Right...The Ex's NEW HUSBAND, still leaving the clerks children with nothng.
I post this incident as a reminder for everyone to be sure that the person you wish to be your beneficiary in the event of your death, is, in fact, listed as such.
Whenever your situation changes (divorce or death of current beneficiary) PLEASE take the time to make sure your estate will go to the person you want it to.
I know death is not a pleasant subject to discuss on this site, but it is a necessary one.