RIP, Cheryl and Tony are together again

cosmo1

Perhaps.
Staff member
With a heavy heart, I have to announce that the owner of Brown Cafe has left us. Tony Express passed away from cancer on May 7 and Cheryl passed on May 22. I don't know the reason and it doesn't really matter, I would like to think maybe it being from a broken heart. They met in high school and were together ever since. They both led a full life and had many adventures from what I know.

Her daughter announced this to the mod staff a couple of days ago and is now trying to decide what to do with her site. I spoke with her daughter today and she would like to find somebody to continue her mother's vision. The Brown Cafe was her first website and started on October 12, 1999. It came about because Cheryl was involved with a Motely Fool UPS discussion board and didn't like how people were disrespected and bullied on there. Her idea was to have a place where people could have mature discussions about the company. She didn't care if you were a union member, management, liberal, or conservative. Cheryl just wanted a place where ideas could be discussed in a reasonable way. To this day, I never have known what her political stances were. Personally, as a moderator, I feel like I have failed her. Moderating a discussion board is a very difficult task I have found. I don't know the reason or who actually started disputes among different members. So for now, let us try to enjoy this place as long as it lasts. I currently don't know the future of what will happen.

Scratch expressed all our feelings more eloquently than I could have. This should be a somber day for every BC member, past all present.

Maybe, out of respect, we should begin to adhere to Cheryl’s original purpose. Treat one another with respect and engage in reasonably polite discourse.

RIP, Cheryl. You will be missed.
 

olroadbeech

Happy Verified UPSer
Cheryl and I had good conversations when I had to delete my old account due to security issues at UPS years ago.
She was always nice .

Sorry to hear all this coming out of practically no where.
 

Overpaid Union Thug

Well-Known Member
Cheryl and I had good conversations when I had to delete my old account due to security issues at UPS years ago.
She was always nice .

Sorry to hear all this coming out of practically no where.
My only real interaction with her was when she was trying to help me recover ALL of my original accounts. Ended up merging what was still archived with this one. She was so knowledgeable and helpful. I only remember Tony rarely stepping in to remind certain people that they need to calm down and play by the rules.
 

PASinterference

Yes, I know I'm working late.
This site has given me more information than I could have ever found by myself. I became a steward 2 yrs ago because I learned so much information from these forums. Thanks Cheryl and Tony for creating a place to share information among simple working people to help create a better environment for the ones who sweat and break their backs to keep ups in business.
 

oldngray

nowhere special
This site has given me more information than I could have ever found by myself. I became a steward 2 yrs ago because I learned so much information from these forums. Thanks Cheryl and Tony for creating a place to share information among simple working people to help create a better environment for the ones who sweat and break their backs to keep ups in business.
That is exactly the reason I started coming here. I couldn't get answers anywhere else.
 

BigUnionGuy

Got the T-Shirt
I am so sad to hear this.

As many "animated" discussions I've had over the years with people, not once.... did Cheryl ever admonish me.

We've shared PM's over the years and she was always polite, respectful, and very helpful. She let me get

away with a lot.... (more than I should have been allowed) but, I think she understood my intent and purpose.


RIP you crazy kids.
 

tourists24

Well-Known Member
Wow I just opened this thread. So sad to hear but still nice to know they are together again. She did a great job with her first site run. RIP you two. Thanks for posting this Scratch
 

NAHimGOOD

Nothing to see here.... Move along.
I've been at a loss for words.

Felt chills when I first read this.

She always came across as nice and fair...

Extremely unbiased with a respectful way of getting her point across.

I'm going to miss her opening doors when a room gets too loud.

Her sarcastic humor came thru sometimes even when you know she was holding back.

Could only imagine the real laughs she had reading posts.

Having just lost my old man to similar situations just over a year ago..

To her daughter and family...

I understand your pain. Thoughts and prayers from my family to yours.

RIP AND THANK YOU CHERYL AND TONY.
 

olroadbeech

Happy Verified UPSer
Man , too young to go....
Try to live life to the fullest and tell family how much you love them.
Crazy world out there. Remember your priorities.
 
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