But the hospitals are in the business of trying to make better. If they can't they say there's nothing more they can do. They aren't just going to let someone linger in their room for a couple of weeks until they die. Hospices are there to take the burden off a family by making the dying patient as comfortable as possible including administering pain killers. If a family wants to do all that themselves there's no law saying they can't beyond I'm assuming administering things like morphine.Don't be too trusting of hospice care. In our mother's final days. She was in a hospital at the time before her final trip back to the nursing home hospice called up and talked to my brother about the services it offered. It went like this:
Hospice: "We can come in and fluff her pillow and check on her condition"
Brother " Isn't that what CNA 's and social workers do?
Hospice: "We can read bible verses to her"
Brother: "She's stone deaf".
And in a snide arrogant voice hospice employee's final words before she angerly hung up were: "Oh well, the infection is going to kill her anyway".
It made it obvious that all they were looking for was billings which meant that for all intents and purposes they were looking to get paid for doing....nothing.
So don't confuse home health nurses with hospice.
End of life sucks. But it's part of it.