Im not sure what to say here, except I see some feelings expressed that could be totally right.
The tomboy type I would say is correct. Although I love all the parts of being a female, there is no way I am as strong, but I had a history of doing hard work. Bailing and putting up hay, herding cows, walking everywhere................that doesnt make me gay, just tomboyish. I preferred baseball over getting my hair and nails done, or going "shopping" I still do. I can tune up a car, but I probably dont know which lipstick is best. I can change a tire, but I dont know how to order the right one. I can race a car, and help build it, and sometimes diagnose a problem, but I cant take a bucket of parts and put it together.
But I can deliver pkgs. I got hurt 4 times in my first four yrs, then I learned and never got hurt again.
I guess I am anti female when I say, I agree with certain job descriptions by filthpig, I dont think most women should be cops. Or in combat, or maybe in fire depts in certain jobs. But I have never held those jobs, so maybe I do not truly know what they entail. I do know I could not do it. But no way does delivering pkgs even compare. Nobody will get killed at UPS if I cant do my job. I will get weeded out and fired. Big difference.
I am the only female, every other one in my center has quit or is off on disabilty, not injury.
When I first came into the job, I told myself If I wasnt as good as most I would leave, at that time I could have. But I was as good if not better than most. A little older now, Im not as fast, but when some woman or man helps me move a Pc to the front door and are ready to go into cardiac arrest, I leave feeling pretty good.
So dont hate us coz we are beautiful

Just work with us as equals, and history will answer your questions. Dont carry one, dont help one any more than you would a fellow man driver, but dont be so offended that you treat us differently. Give us the same breaks and you may be suprised how nice diversity can be.