menotyou
bella amicizia
My twisted head comes up with some interesting things.
Can't believe I'm gonna say this....
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ORLY!?!
Master Loader
'Lord Brown's bidding'
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If you are looking for a friend w bennies, or to rush into something, don't look for it at work. Such relationships are fraught with peril to begin with, and having it with a co-worker complicates things more.
OTOH, if you are going to pursue this like a mature adult-take the time to get to know the person, gradual progression in PDAs/signs of affection, not sending your pt supervisor or center manager to break up for you if things go sour-you shouldn't worry about catastrophe, even at thw work place. The key is being honest, open, and fair, with yourself as well the other person. If you know early on it probably won't work, don't be shy/cowardly and not break it off in a mature/peacefully manner. Afterall, even if they weren't your co-worker that'd be bad because it's just unkind, not decent, and they end up the ones stalking you and necessatating you getting a restraining order on them.
It is hard to find someone you have real chemistry with, and you two MAY have it. Handle this on a mature, adult fashion and you should be fine. Remember, take your time, and be discreet.
OTOH, if you are going to pursue this like a mature adult-take the time to get to know the person, gradual progression in PDAs/signs of affection, not sending your pt supervisor or center manager to break up for you if things go sour-you shouldn't worry about catastrophe, even at thw work place. The key is being honest, open, and fair, with yourself as well the other person. If you know early on it probably won't work, don't be shy/cowardly and not break it off in a mature/peacefully manner. Afterall, even if they weren't your co-worker that'd be bad because it's just unkind, not decent, and they end up the ones stalking you and necessatating you getting a restraining order on them.
It is hard to find someone you have real chemistry with, and you two MAY have it. Handle this on a mature, adult fashion and you should be fine. Remember, take your time, and be discreet.
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menotyou
bella amicizia
Great advice. Sucks that that's the only place most of us interact with people.
DesertRider
New Member
I would think the same about my loader but he's ugly and smells
Me too. There is also a driver married to a member of his center's management team.
'Lord Brown's bidding'
Well-Known Member
Doesn't have to be. Most of us work in buildings that don't have sunday shifts, and even if you work on Sats it won't be for a whole day. I once had a woman give some other dude her number to give to me because I was asleep when she got off the bus. I was in my browns, as a helper, on the bus ride home, ergo without my own vehicle, and I got a number, while asleep. What can one of us do (even pt loaders; our bennies are legendary), while awoke?
loadfaster
Active Member
Something new...driver has behaved a little different since he got back from vacation. Less flirty. Kinda pisses me off! Arent the females supposed to be the ones sending mixed messages?
oldupsman
Well-Known Member
Well, he probably had a week of wild sex with some woman while
on vacation. You should be happy for the guy.
UpstateNYUPSer(Ret)
Well-Known Member
His boss read your post and told him to scale it back.
loadfaster
Active Member
See, I said people always find out...
BSWALKS
Fugitive From Reality
On their toes? I never tried it that position.
CaptainObvious
Well-Known Member
loadfaster
Active Member
Cleveland Steamer? The hell?...
moreluck
golden ticket member
Yahoo it!!
You'll be sorry if you do.
moreluck
golden ticket member
Too late!!
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