Can you tell me how someone can be pro-choice without being pro-abortion?
Pro abortion means you favor abortions, that is inaccurate. The pro choice people I know believe that it is a difficult decision that ultimately lies with the mother.
Making abortion illegal or near impossible to get won't stop abortions, it will only make them unsafer. It would be great if every child had the opportunity to be brought up with a well prepared, loving family, under the best of circumstances. Unfortunately, that is not the reality of human life.
Perhaps you'd be willing to take in a pregnant mother, clothe and feed her and her child, and guarantee their well being? Or is that the State's job? Or should they just be left to suffer in poor conditions because of poor choices?