I Just Lost MY Father!

Discussion in 'Life After Brown' started by stevetheupsguy, May 9, 2011.

  1. stevetheupsguy

    stevetheupsguy sʇǝʌǝʇɥǝndsƃnʎ

    I just lost my Dad, my role model, the person who taught me to be the best, me, possible. I love you Dad, and know you're in peace! God Bless YOU!

  2. toonertoo

    toonertoo Most Awesome Dog Staff Member

    Im so sorry Steve, I hope you can find peace with your many memories Its a tough one. for sure. will keep you in my prayers. Be strong.
  3. Monkey Butt

    Monkey Butt Dark Prince of Double Standards Staff Member

    Sorry Steve. Hold on to the memories and relish those. Over 25 years later I can still hear my father.
  4. DS

    DS Fenderbender

    My condolences Steve,man you goin' through a lot of crap lately,
    hold on to a little bit of the old tough guy you used to be when you
    were young and it'll all be good.Sorry for your loss:sad-little:
  5. brownedout

    brownedout New Member

    Condolences and prayers Steve.
  6. upsgrunt

    upsgrunt Well-Known Member

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Steve.
    You are in my hopes and prayers for positive energy to come your way.
    Hang in there,

  7. cheryl

    cheryl I started this. Staff Member

    Oh no :(

    I'm so very sorry for your loss Steve.

    Hang in there.
  8. moreluck

    moreluck golden ticket member

    Sorry for your loss, Steve. Was he in the same area as you or back in N.Y.?
    Will be thinking about you. Take a deep breath and remember all he taught
    you. Sorry!
  9. Mike57

    Mike57 Member

    Steve, My thoughts are with you and your family.
  10. satellitedriver

    satellitedriver Moderator Staff Member

    15yrs have past, since I lost my Father.
    Yet, he is within me everyday.
    If I knew the words of comfort, I would send them to you.
    Your picture of your Father bears an uncanny similarity to my Father.
    Here is a pic from 1964, of my Dad and me.


    I feel and share your sorrow.
    Stay strong ,
  11. Signature Only

    Signature Only Blue in Brown

    I am very sorry for your loss.

    I lost my father 23 years ago and my mother in 1998.

    When I was 6 years old my dad took me out into the forest and let me pick a tree for Christmas. Afterwards he bought me a hot spiced apple cider at a big roadside fruit stand. I can still see the snow on the ground.

    I'm so sorry.
  12. curiousbrain

    curiousbrain Well-Known Member

    Steve, that's terrible.

    Lost my father when I was eleven; only words I can think to offer is that it does get easier over time.
  13. dillweed

    dillweed Well-Known Member

    Steve, I'm so sorry for your loss. Like some of the others said, he will always be with you. In time I hope you can see him in the mirror and hear him in your own voice. He is you and you are him. Take good care, give yourself time to grieve and heal.
  14. over9five

    over9five Moderator Staff Member

    Sorry for your loss, Steve. My father passed 6 years, 8 days ago. Always thought there'd be more time..
  15. faded jeans

    faded jeans just a member

    Steve, Grief is the price we pay for having loved. May God comfort you and your family during this difficult time.
  16. Nimnim

    Nimnim The Nim

    Stand strong Steve. [​IMG]

    I know it'll be hard for a bit, but sadly it's a fact of life. You have my condolences and my sympathy.
  17. UpstateNYUPSer

    UpstateNYUPSer Very proud grandfather.

    Sorry for your loss, Steve.
  18. menotyou

    menotyou bella amicizia

    I am so sorry for your loss, Steve. Your father was very handsome. I wish you all the comfort and love you could every ask for. You are too sweet a person for all this that has been raining down on you, lately. I wish I could send you a hug.

    Best wishes,

  19. browndevil

    browndevil Active Member

    Stug, my thoughts echo Sat's. It has been 16 years since I lost my father. I cannot count the times I have felt his prescence when I needed him. He will be with now more than ever
    I will keep you in my thoughts today
  20. dilligaf

    dilligaf IN VINO VERITAS

    Through the pain and loss you feel
    You can count on our 'support'
    We'll be with you, in spirit
    And in mind and heart and thought

    And though it will be difficult
    In the days ahead of you
    Try to face the future bravely
    As your dad would want you to

    Peace be with you Bro. :angel: