Sorry to disagree with you but the numbers are telling. If UPS is not the cause it is definitely a major part of the problem. I know at least 12-15 guys that are divorced and they all said their wives were fed up with the UPS BS. Sure there were other issues, but the unfexable, stressful, NO transfer rules, and late nights were all factors.
Again - Look to who is responsible for making the marriage work. The two people in it.
Apparently those 12-15 folks were not willing to put their marriage before UPS. They can tell you different, but the fact remains that they cut ties with their wife before cutting ties with UPS.
Granted UPS, money, infidelity, laziness, drugs, alcohol, etc., etc. are all strains on a marriage. But it takes two to decide what is the most important thing in your life. If you say your marriage then you must work on the things that are causing those strains.
If UPS was ruining my marriage, I would leave UPS to save my marriage. ...
end of story!
Saying anything else is a cope out!
It is much easier to blame something or someone else rather than taking the responsibility to take the effort to solve the problem.
If you actually take the time to put your marriage and family first than you will probably be successful. But remember it always takes two people to make this happen.
If either the husband or wife don't want to be married anymore than nothing will fix the marriage ... and again pointing fingers is much easier than looking inwardly at yourself.
Marriage is harder work than UPS - I really believe that! I have 35 plus years doing both! LOL!