Need Help ASAP - medical, dental & eye cost for Pilot Group

[UPS Pilot kids]

After the divorce maybe he doesn't have it?

After the divorce maybe he doesn't have it?

My dad take At least 5 vacations a year. 3 to Europe. His house has a fishing pond and pool. Not asking about paying for college vs girlfriend. It is health insurance. Our colleges require it or it costs each of us $2500/yr. my mom said she would pay the UPS premium for us but my father refuses to provide proof of what he is wanting to charge her.

 

[Brownslave688]

He does if it was in the divorce decree.

Yeah doesn't really sound like the case here.

 

[burrheadd]

He does if it was in the divorce decree.

Sounds like mom needed a better lawyer. This should have all been settled before divorce was finalized

 

[UPS Pilot kids]

He does if it was in the divorce decree.

My mom said he refused to accept any responsibility after we turned !8. Not obligated in North Carolina

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

My dad take At least 5 vacations a year. 3 to Europe. His house has a fishing pond and pool. Not asking about paying for college vs girlfriend. It is health insurance. Our colleges require it or it costs each of us $2500/yr. my mom said she would pay the UPS premium for us but my father refuses to provide proof of what he is wanting to charge her.

Why not ask him yourself?

 

[burrheadd]

My dad take At least 5 vacations a year. 3 to Europe. His house has a fishing pond and pool. Not asking about paying for college vs girlfriend. It is health insurance. Our colleges require it or it costs each of us $2500/yr. my mom said she would pay the UPS premium for us but my father refuses to provide proof of what he is wanting to charge her.

How hots the girlfriend? Send a pic and I will decide

 

[Brownslave688]

My dad take At least 5 vacations a year. 3 to Europe. His house has a fishing pond and pool. Not asking about paying for college vs girlfriend. It is health insurance. Our colleges require it or it costs each of us $2500/yr. my mom said she would pay the UPS premium for us but my father refuses to provide proof of what he is wanting to charge her.

Ups pilots don't pay for healthcare. I'd think your mother would know this.

 

[UPS Pilot kids]

No.

Sounds like mom needed a better lawyer. This should have all been settled before divorce was finalized

My father forced my mom to go to court. He refused to settle. She had a good lawyer but North Carolina law (I'm pre-law at Louisville) states no obligation for children after 18 unless they are still in high school.

Once again, all she wants to know is she is being extorted over the insurance premium prices. If so, he may be committing a criminal act

 

[UPS Pilot kids]

How hots the girlfriend? Send a pic and I will decide

Over 50 and was a former alcoholic.

 

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Over 50 and was a former alcoholic.

Right up his alley.

 

[UPS Pilot kids]

Ups pilots don't pay for healthcare. I'd think your mother would know this.

She said because he is not "management pilot" he has paid healthcare costs in the past.

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

Over 50 and was a former alcoholic.

I think you started this thread to get back and embarrass your dad.

 

[upschuck]

How does he afford at least 5 vacations a year. 3 in Europe? His house has a pond and a pool.. Bought jewelry for girlfriend. Just no money for health insurance for us. That's why I want to find out how much it really costs for him to pay for insurance for us.

He can afford it, he just wants to put the squeeze on mom.

 

[burrheadd]

Over 50 and was a former alcoholic.

Send me her number she sounds perfect

Even better if she has a North Carolina drawl

 

[Brownslave688]

I think you started this thread to get back and embarrass your dad.

And he posted him name. We should report it.

 

[Brownslave688]

Sounds like mom needed a better lawyer. This should have all been settled before divorce was finalized

Exactly.

 

[upschuck]

She said because he is not "management pilot" he has paid healthcare costs in the past.

Premiums or copays/deductibles?

 

[UPS Pilot kids]

Yep. Dad may just be an ass but chances are mom is purposely talking bad about him.


Divorce sucks.

Not talking bad about him. All she wants to do is help us and not get gouged by him. If UPS changed their policies since their divorce and he doesn't pay for healthcare, then that is pretty rotten to charge my mom $2400/yr. But, if he is paying for healthcare, all my mom wants is to pay the monthly premium he has been getting charged for us and nothing more.

 

[Brownslave688]

Premiums or copays/deductibles?

I just can not believe pilots would pay a monthly premium

 

[IVE GOTTA PACKAGE 4U]

And he posted him name. We should report it.

I did report it last night. Her original post had his full name in it. Looks like the mids fixed it.