Relationships at work???

Discussion in 'UPS Discussions' started by arice11, Dec 1, 2014.

  1. arice11

    arice11 Active Member

    I may just be bored. But since there are UPS folk here, no reason I can't be straight with y'all.
    6 Months back, we got a change in leadership, the warehouse supervisor took over for the part-time manager.
    Part of my SUPS new crew included a beautiful young driver.
    Within a week we had taken interest, briefly, but rumors and such began to stir and she became very cross with me.
    At one point we were texting, sharing pics, talking, hanging out during break, exchanging little gifts. At one point we made a date to Dairy Queen.
    I really like this woman, shes a strong worker, but she is also very close to the new boss.
    My boss use to baby-sit because he was her mother's sup...
    I thought I was being played, spied on...dug up and uncovered so the boss could find out who I was.
    Needless to say we stopped talking, but I tried to get in her good graces and gave her a birthday present (after dressing like a driver and infiltrating their ranks)
    She said thank you, but would refuse any other offer at contact. I am now feeling so helpless. She is known to be a grievance filer, so that stayed my hand mostly.

    Since when did work-relationships become so debilitating to ones psyche? Hahahaha, a rhetorical question....

    Am I just bad with women?
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  2. Sleeve_meet_Heart

    Sleeve_meet_Heart making the unreadable unreadabler

    I leave gender out of it...we're all just people working. Never understood the people who creep on people at work. :P
  3. STFXG

    STFXG Well-Known Member

    You blew it with the classy DQ date.
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  4. cosmo1

    cosmo1 Just another internet hooligan.


    Who cares?
  5. Crazy Diamond

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  6. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 mouth breathers...everywhere

  7. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 mouth breathers...everywhere

    oh FFS!
    Where the hell is Barnyard?
  8. Operational needs

    Operational needs Well-Known Member

  9. I think he went to the bar.
  10. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 mouth breathers...everywhere

    Lol i'll be there for Happy hour on me there? Whiskey n pepsi's on me!
  11. oldngray

    oldngray nowhere special

    Who's bringing the roofies?
  12. VonDutch

    VonDutch Bite your tongue, Missy

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  14. bleedinbrown58

    bleedinbrown58 mouth breathers...everywhere

    Upstate's not invited!
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  16. arice11

    arice11 Active Member

    I know it was stupid. Dairy Queen?
    But I still enjoyed sharing a treat with her after work.
    It was refreshing.
  18. Dr.Brownz

    Dr.Brownz Well-Known Member

    It is irrelevant how you felt about the encounter
  19. arice11

    arice11 Active Member

    Was it really that bad an idea?
    Seemed simple and efficient to me. We hung out in her car and smoked like 4 cigs before she had to go pick her kids up...idk, she wont talk to me anymore so who cares...maybe I'll become her driver helper
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  20. 3 done 3 to go

    3 done 3 to go In control of my own destiny

    If you and she are single go at it like rabbits. I do have morals