Mixyo - Not sure where you picked up the expectation that simply placing a note on a package would get it picked up if you had a package delivered that day. Any packages that have been picked up are because your drivers have been going above and beyond to provide service, but also putting you in a bad spot when the package does not make service or when it is somebody other than UPS that picks up that package.
There is a charge for a pickup service for a reason. It's not because we simply want to make money at every possible point.
What happens when somebody other than UPS picks up your package? Are you going to try to file a claim? The claim will be denied that we never touched the package. What happens on days when there is a cover driver or when the route comes up to be re-bid and you have a new driver? If you need your package picked up on a particular day, you need to schedule a pickup for that day and be present to tender the package to UPS. If you do not want to follow these steps, you are welcome to find another method to get the package into the network. Keep in mind that dollar amounts eligible for declared value vary based on the method that you choose.
Your driver is not being anything that needs to be censored, they are doing their job. Your attitude does need to be checked at the browser before you start typing and could use some censoring.
You might want to consider the first couple of days they figured you were clueless and would help you out, but to repeatedly do something that appears to be avoiding being charged for a service and provide a necessary allowance as well as protections for the shipper?