BC doesn't seem fun anymore

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After some of the messages I've gotten lately I almost don't feel worthy of going there anymore.

I love this site and especially the nothingness fluff thread but this place is getting real different.


I do like this thread though.
 

ajblakejr

Age quod agis
Everytime I log On, I think that BC has become a deadrly, miserable place.

A few years ago, I had fun, but now it seems so freaking serious!

There are a few azzes on here that spew their hatred and :censored2:-holedness and they just seem like very unhappy people. I am not!
In your opinion, how do we change it back to fun? What is missing?
 
In your opinion, how do we change it back to fun? What is missing?
Everything goes in cycles. It used to be that people had each other's back more on here. This still is the case but not like it was. You shouldn't have to have this kinda mentality on this site but is a microcosm of life and the real world.
 

MyTripisCut

Never bought my own handtruck
Everything goes in cycles. It used to be that people had each other's back more on here. This still is the case but not like it was. You shouldn't have to have this kinda mentality on this site but is a microcosm of life and the real world.
Don't forget this is the internet. If you treat your friends on here like you treat pornstars on here (with no feelings) you'll be worry free.
 
How can we make it better?
Dude you already make it better. You can't possibly do anymore. You probably will because you are a good person and it's in your nature. My advice is to do what you do and don't worry about the negativity that's out there and what I'm ranting about. Some people are good and some people are not so good.

If more people were looking like I've we would all be smiling.
 
Dude you already make it better. You can't possibly do anymore. You probably will because you are a good person and it's in your nature. My advice is to do what you do and don't worry about the negativity that's out there and what I'm ranting about. Some people are good and some people are not so good.

If more people were looking like I've we would all be smiling.
Thank you Sir.
 
Don't forget this is the internet. If you treat your friends on here like you treat pornstars on here (with no feelings) you'll be worry free.
I could care less anymore. If players want to hate they can feel free. I explained myself enough. This forum is still the best place for upsers to come and learn. You can socialize with some real great people and laugh sometimes so much that you will spit up. Take it all for what it's worth.
 

box_beeyotch

Well-Known Member
The problem isn't that they get hurt by A stranger, they get hurt by everyone dog piling on. It's an every day occurrence. I have see it time and time again and it always hurts a community. Get to know the person before busting their balls. This isn't high school, everyone here are grown adults. I was put off by this site the first time I posted because of all the toxic attitudes. These guys on here probably don't talk that way to people who come up to them and ask them questions at work, but when they get on here they feel like they should be ass holes. You can justify it all you want, but being and :censored2: is being an :censored2: and it isn't right. Blaming someone for getting their feelings hurt isn't on them it's on the person who was being a dick. People should have thicker skin but that person never would have been upset or annoyed if the person just acted like an adult.

Well said. We can just agree to disagree. That's life, just got to handle it and move on. I do however agree it does take away from the genuiness and support of the forum...but I also haven't been around long enough to know the way it used to be.
 

Integrity

Binge Poster
The problem isn't that they get hurt by A stranger, they get hurt by everyone dog piling on. It's an every day occurrence. I have see it time and time again and it always hurts a community. Get to know the person before busting their balls. This isn't high school, everyone here are grown adults. I was put off by this site the first time I posted because of all the toxic attitudes. These guys on here probably don't talk that way to people who come up to them and ask them questions at work, but when they get on here they feel like they should be ass holes. You can justify it all you want, but being and :censored2: is being an :censored2: and it isn't right. Blaming someone for getting their feelings hurt isn't on them it's on the person who was being a dick. People should have thicker skin but that person never would have been upset or annoyed if the person just acted like an adult.
greengrenades,

Well said.

There are many who behave in a very immature, dysfunctional ways on this site.

There are probably alcoholics, porn addicts, drug users, you name it posting on this site.

They need love not condemnation.

There are definitely imperfect people who post of this site of whom I am the most imperfect.

The simple fact is this site and the world at large would be a better place if individuals were more sensitive and caring about the needs and feelings of others.

Peace.

Sincerely,
I
 
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